5 more days to Tricia's first month

5 more days... I am so excited. In chinese traditional or my hubby's family's law, we can bring her out only after her first month. But there is something I really curious about... :\

Wondering why Tricia can bring out gai-gai right after her first month, which is 30days but not 40 days instead (coz' ker's mum said she cannot attend others' party within 40 days). =\ I never ask more coz' different family got their own law de. Keke~!

But luckily my family don't follow such law and they are coming to Tricia's first month (even though my sister is doing her confinement at mama's house. But she's not coming as we cannot so-called 'clash' one another lor).

Papa and Mama are Tricia's grandparents, so the more they should come! :D

Show you some pictures and video on my little princess, Tricia. :D
P/S: But I have not yet upgraded to Queen yet. Lolx~!

Showing her active movement :)

Daughter looking at Daddy vice versa

Give Daddy a punch on nose!

She can able to see e movement of.. :)
(regardless things or human, or even camera!)

Poor Tricia, she is suffering from Eczema currently and went to see doctor yesterday. Did not realise that children see doctor super expensive till yesterday. =\ But hopefully the cream and soap liquid doctor prescribe will make her rashes better. I juz wanna her be pretty pretty on this Sunday lah. :(

Just love her as much as my mama love me. :) I have three important people in my life now. But somehow one of them dun like the other one. Phew~!

Ever since Tricia born, I realised that I have becoming more and more independent. Capricorn is a strong and independent woman but family-minded person. Lolx~! This is why I still love my family and my little princess. :D

Tricia has brown eyes and hair

When Tricia is born, I ask my hubby immediately whether she has my eyes color or hubby's one. Hubby said my eyes color - black. I was quite a little disappointed coz' I always think female has brown eyes is more attractive. But anyway, she looks like me, why not!

But this week while I was feeding her with milk in the sunny day. I realised that she has brown eyes! This is because I can see her pupil in her eye ball. :D

Can you spot that her eyeballs color are brown? :D

I still cannot confirm her hair color until last week. And I confirm that her hair color follow me! Hubby's hair color is kinda of light black like ash color. For mine it is brown color. And for Tricia...

在看我吗？

Hair color is brown! :D

Guess she really got a mixture of me and hubby's features. Haha...

Hair color: Me
Eyes ball color: Ker
Nose: Me
Nose bridge: Ker
Upper lip: Me
Lower lip: Ker
Eyes enlargement: Me
Double eye lid: Ker
Ears: Me
Gender: Follow me!

So I am the winner. Haha!

Hmmm...

And yes, one more thing. She is also as hairy as her mum. =x

Wahahahahaha~!

Abit dark here coz' at night aka no flash night is allowed.

Posing like a Saturday fever retro style?

P/S: I am so bored now. Baby is now under her grandfather's hands while hubby went for his badminton game. So... I am a slacker now.

P/S/S: Someone is showing black face to me today out of no reason. Phew! Heck care~

想握你的手

Eversince baby was born, Ker & I never hold each other hands anymore. I remember the last time he held my hands was when I was in pain due to contractions aka during the pushing. After I delivered, he never once held my hands le. But seeing him carry our baby, is more than enough.

After I discharge from hospital, I was in pain due to stitches. I dun need anyone to hold me as I need to walk by myself to ease the pain. When people holding me, I may feel the pulling and dragging which caused more pain.

Most of the times, I only saw Ker and myself holding baby's hands. Her hands are so small and mini size. So cute especially when she also hold our hands. We cannot believe that she is so strong. When she is throwing her temper, she will kick and kick like 黄飞鸿的無影腳. Lolx~!


This morning, I woke up early and look at baby. Glad that my in-laws helping me to take care of her. She was drinking her milk in an engross way. So cute. I went back to bed after that.


I was looking at Ker when he was sleeping so soundly. Dunno for why, I reached out my hand to hold his hand. So warmth and big... but the 'holding' was different as he never hold my hand this time. He sleep like a pig. Haha~! But this is more than enough.


And stupid alarm, rang this time and caused him to wake up. :( Time flies or will never be enough especially when you are enjoying. I asked for a hug from him and it only lasted less than a minute. =\ He was still in a sleepy mode I guess.

Husband and wife and baby. Sometimes spend a little time with your partner when your baby is sleeping or under others' care. This is to let your partner knows that you still love him/her. :)

Do not be a Tyrant

Be Partners in the Decision Making Process.

Never be Emotionally

Be Careful of Your Words Especially when you are angry

Show Affection

Be Your Spouse's Friend

Show Appreciation

Work Together in the House

Communication is Important

Forget Past Problems When it already been solved

Live Simply

Give Your Spouse Time Alone

Admit Your Mistakes

Physical Relationship is Important

Have Meals Together

Be Mindful of Your discussion Topics

Good marriages require patience, kindness, humility, sacrifice, empathy, love, understanding, forgiveness, and hard work.

I miss hugging him tightly... But I dun smell as fragrant as before coz' my last bathe was on last Monday. =\ I will hug him in my next bathe bah. -_-'''

Post-natal Massage

Signed up for post-natal massage 2 weeks ago and started my massage on last Thursday. Rose, the Malay massage lady was introduced by Shuting's sister. She is a person who very nice to chat with and willing to explain to you the procedures and effects of the massage patiently.

During my first session with her, she told me that my womb is already smaller. This is a good sign that my womb is able to decrease in size in such a short period. So she will help me to make my womb go back to original size, lose my body fats and most importantly is tummy fats.


From these sessions, I can see my tummy is getting smaller. Just that the flabby fats still there and can be seen when I am sitting down. To get rid of this kinda of fats is to do exercise. I will go for a run in the morning with hubby during weekends. For weekdays wise, I will have to climb the staircase regularly as what I did during my poly times when I was on diet program.

Just had my 5th massage this morning. The malay woman said that my tummy is smaller, so she decided to pin up the second (tighter) buttons. =\ It caused me eat even lesser during my lunch just now.


Rose is a good massager. Her hands are really strong enough. Perhaps to me lah. For my elder sister wise she might need a man to help her massage as she okie with hard massage. Lolx~! I also introduce Rose to my sisters.

Rose is not only handling pre and post-natal massage. She also handling slimming massage. She is going to massage for my elder sister tonight as my elder sister wanna be slimmer before her wedding day comes. Haha!

$60 per session, 1 hour for each session (She will do more than 1 hour usually)
But if you signed up for her package, $500 for 10 sessions consecutively.

If you want it for more after finished her package, she will charge you $50 still for next session. :) Want her service? Get her contact no. from me then. I dun earn any advertisement money from her btw. Haha!

Tricia is already 2 weeks old!

Time flies. Dunno why, how I wish she knows how to play with us now. But this usually applies to 2-3 months babies bah. =\ She only like to throw temper at times, purposely cry infront of us and just wanna us to carry her or feed her with milk. =\

Haven't really post any pictures aka story of her yet. So I shall post it now. :D

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Day 1

She already know how to use "evil eyes" to look at us... lolx~!

Day 2

Family of 3

Day 3

Even her crying look and sound also adorable.. =x

Day 4

Discharge from Hospital and she is trying to look at the surroundings...

Day 5

Only Pacifier can calm her down... -_-'''

Day 7
One week old

She prefer to sleep in side way position..
(Just like her mum lor)

Day 9

Realise something?

She rely her hand towards her face when sleeping leh...
(Just like ME!)

Day 10

Dunno why sometimes she likes to sleep on sofa..

Day 11

Browsing at her jungle playpen
(Bought by Melvin, Shuting, Xk, Jinnah & Yankai)

This also bought by them. :)

Day 13

I wonder...

Day 14
Two weeks old

I am two weeks old now! :D

There are so many cute photos of Tricia. :) Wondering why she keep smiling in her dream. So cute and I always ask her can share with me her sweet dream or not. Lolx~!

Maternity Makeover

Well, I never do maternity makeover. This is what I regret of. Seeing others did maternity makeover for their first pregnancy, I feel so envious. :( Wanted to argue with hubby about this but he show no interest at this at all. What to do?

I dare not post naked totally lah. But I like to have cute and fun shot together with hubby. Just that the other party dun like this kinda of thing. It takes two hands to clap. So.. I never go for it in the end.

Regret lah. :( What about second pregnancy and go for it? Nope, it will not be the same as the first time. :'( I always cannot make the decision. Argh!

Shouldn't complain now. Coz' Tricia is already out. =\ Tomorrow will be her expected delivery date but she already 13 days old liao. Lolx~!

I should think positively. This is why I try to focus on Tricia now. Other than Tricia, I took out all of my past memories from blog, photo albums and gifts to flash back the sweetest moments.

This do works and worth a smile from my face but dunno why heart will feel a bit sour at times.

Wish to go back to work asap but can't bear to leave my little princess at home. Can I bring her to work? Haha...

Today no sight of blood clots at all. :( Neither I wanna eat the medicine anymore. Tomorrow my malay massager will be coming to my house early in the morning. She will massage for me for ten days to help me to slim down faster. I do hope it will help my blood to circulate faster so that blood clot will be out. =\

Eyesights getting blurrer. I hope this will not cause any bad signs. Sighz.

Failure me

She brought over the food on Saturday after a week of my delivery.
Food was rejected coz' here do not recommend to eat such foods now.
They throw the food away to the dustbin.

She brought over Sesame oil chicken on Sunday.
Before rejection from here, I told her to bring back the foods.
I dun wanna ended up disagreement and dustbin ending again.

She called me just now that she has made 3 bottle of wines.
She wanna give it to me one bottle but I reject her.
I told her I dun wanna disagreement from here again just in case.
She felt sad but never comment much.

I feel sad too. It is hard to accommodate two people from different mindset.
I feel myself so useless and failure.
She wants the best for me yet here thinks she is no good.
What a joke.

Feeling so vexed, I washed my hair in the basin yesterday night.
But the mood never be better still.
Looking at baby, is the only way to distract my attention for a while.

:)