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Blog shift

2010-01-17T23:48:00.002+08:00

Changed and shifted my blog to wordpress already.

Just wanna write several or rather tons of post which set to password protected private post coz' I feel emo again.

http://simplyzhenie.wordpress.com

Don't worry, you will still get to see my public posts. :)

Job - Work - Future

2010-01-15T12:54:00.006+08:00

Should I apply the same job as what my hubby do now?

There are several concerns which caused me to hesitate.

We will have more things to discuss. :)
We might argue over some issues we do not agree with. :(
I will have to work in shift. :(
People who know him, will know me too. :)
People who know my character, the way I communicate with my colleagues, will end up my hubby knows it too. (I'm a straight-forward person) :(
Once you confirm this job, it must be a forever job. :(
Once you quit this job, you got to start all over again in a new job, UNLESS you transfer to another department. :) :(

In a mess now. Hope my current boss will give me good pay. Heard that there is no bonus in this company. Just that we have one day off in every month (excluding our 14days leave), if Saturday is a holiday and we can accumulate one more 'leave' day, good working environment (nice colleagues around us) and nice boss.

But, I have to think of that stupid study loan and my precious baby, Tricia's expenses. =\ So pay is a sensitive issue to me.

Frankly speaking, I really dun like shift work. I am enjoying sleeping while my hubby is always besides me (as he already in office hours now instead of shift work).

What should I do? Hope next Tuesday I will hear good news from my current pretty boss - GOOD PAY. =x

2009 Reflections

2010-01-01T09:38:00.007+08:00

Thinking back... what have I done during 2009...

Jan ~

I rebonded my hair just to prepare for the coming Chinese New Year.

Feb ~

It was my first time giving out angbaos although people said that we dun have to give in the first year of marriage. It was also my last time to collect some angbaos from my parents and some of my relatives.

Mar ~

I lost my laptop at Yishun Northpoint. =\ Bought a new laptop Lenovo S10 after than coz' it cheap and light. Regret in the end juz becoz' the speed is super slow when you deal with IT applications like watching video, video editing, etc.

Went to take Portfoilo in school and was quite happy with the Casual shot. Formal-resume shot simply look like property agent. Lolx~!

After 13 years, friends from Primary School finally meet up.

Everyone look still the same. Just that character are kinda of different. As usual, I still as talkative as before. :)

April ~

On April's fool day, I got a shocking news. Could not believe with my own eyes with those cheaper kits, I bought a more expensive and accurate one - Clear Blue Brand.

It still shows me Positive sign. -_-'''

Went to Taiwan with hubby, which considered as our Honeymoon. :)

Had my last paper in SMU, finally.

May ~

Took one summer course so as to graduate. My last module/lesson as well. After then I had been slacking while try my luck to look for job. As you know, pregnant woman always has difficulties in looking for job. Lolx~!

I can see/hear my baby's heartbeat during check up. :)

June ~

Nothing much in this month. But I can feel the movement of our little baby. :)

July ~

Finally my turn to graduate. But I declare to attend graduation ceremony next year coz' of H1N1 issue. Meanwhile, I can graduate together with my fellow friends in the same batch. :)

Gained a lot of weight so have to pack my favorite dresses in the luggage. Went for a check up to check baby's gender and it is a girl. Quite disappointed but still, it is our baby. :)

I can feel the kick from our little baby. :)

Aug ~

Finally I got myself a job which introduced by Shuting. It was a part-time basis due to my pregnancy. I am okay with that as long as there is income and I won't be slacking at home anymore. :)

Our cute baby kicked her daddy when he was trying to listen to her. Lolx~!

Sept ~

Ate a lot different kinds of mooncakes in the office. =)
Start to kick and punch my hubby during sleeping time. Poor him though.

First time seeing hubby change car tyres. His sweat just like tap water, keep flowing non-stop. Haha~!

Oct ~

Hubby's last day of work at Airport. Went to surprise him but ended up he dun feel anything. =\

Stretch marks start to appear around my tummy. :( Rashes around legs made me feel so irritate. Body start to feel weaker and movement began to slow down. I just wanna say, I am no longer active Esther. Keke~!

Nov ~

Boss and fellow colleagues treated me a very good meals before I left for Maternity leave. Less than two weeks I give birth already due to mis-communication with doctor. Haha... Thought of enjoying few more days of eating before I go for inducement lor. =\

Tricia's first week - Easy to take care. So no problem for all of us. All she did was drink and sleep. Play awhile then sleep.

Dec ~

But for the next few weeks were a hectic one. She cried non-stop for no reason. But sometimes she got stomachaches which caused her cried and screamed. Her pitch really high that no microphone is required. ~Sleepless nights~ But she do make us smiles. She just look so cute and adorable. :)

Last week, we brought her to Polyclinic for Hep B 2nd injection. I was so nervous when the nurse preparing the jab. When she insert the jab into Tricia's lap, Tricia cried aloud. My tears were like flowing out so quickly. Though after awhile she okie already, my eyes still so teary. Wondering whyI took injection also never cry, but when seeing her cry I also cry. Haha!

This is the first time I dun have cake during my birthday. Partly becoz all of us were so busy with Tricia. I also no time to go out with my friends to celebrate. =\ Glad that my colleagues will make an effort to buy gift for me even though I havent start work yet. My mama and sisters also gave me hongbaos. :)

X'mas again no celebration. Tricia occupied us. Haha!

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Yesterday Tricia and I went out with hubby and his family for new year dinner. But only coundown to 2007 was missing. Hubby suffered from migrane again. So throughout the whole night he was like a mummy - stone and keep quiet infront of his computer.

Glad that I managed to see abit of Fireworks from dunno where (the building blocked 3/4 of it). But the sound of pop pop pop scared Tricia during her sleep. Lolx! 1/4 of fireworks, still look nice. :)

Happy New Year 2010! :)

Blanket & Bolster

2009-12-28T21:45:00.004+08:00

I think Tricia is not a girl aka lady that you can bully. She is super rough even though she's only 5 weeks old baby!

Look at this...

Covered her with thick towel-blanket to keep her warm

But less than 10 minutes...

It's turned out this way!

Bo bian lor, got to use pillow to rest on the blanket so that she won't be able to kick away the blanket easily. Phew~!

Tried the new mini bolster for Tricia to hug and realised that she is so CUTE when hugging the mini bolster. The mini Tricia is holding the mini bolster while sleeping on the mini pillow and bed. Everything so mini and cute!

Tricia is still learning how to use her bolster

But still, she will kick away the bolster in less than 10 minutes. I just cannot stand her behavior. I gonna behave like a super gentle mother with a sweet voice liao. Else she will behave like me - rough, talk any craps aloud, boyish, etc... -_-'''

P/S: She cried non-stop these two days for nothing. I see liao very heart pain. :'( How am I going to start work when seeing her like this? I just wanna pay off my sch loan and give her a better life. Sighz.

I just simply love her very much. And this makes me realised how much my mama loves me too... :\

Tricia & Caden

2009-12-24T21:39:00.006+08:00

I am so freaky happy when my mother-in-law allows me to bring baby over to visit my mama! I thought that she will only allow when our babies after forty days. But I dun bother to ask her question since she allows me to go mama's house lah! :)

When I reached mama's house just now, the first thing I do was to go and look for Caden and carry him. Of coz hubby helped to carry Tricia. Heehee! He is awake and keep looking at me, his small aunt. :D Same as Tricia, he keep raising his eyebrows when looking at me. Lolx~!

We put two of them together on Caden's bed and take pictures. SO CUTE OKIE!!! But after a while I think Tricia dun like to sleep a guy's bed so she started to show her temper. -_-''' Her voice compared to Caden, really big difference. From 1 to 10 decibel, Caden rated 2 while Tricia rated 9!!!

SMS Conversation with my elder sister

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Me: Caden cries super soft lor. Not like mine, so fierce. Faint.

Her: Ya. That's why I never move out. I never hear his cries at night. His voice very monotonous. Haha.

Me: U lucky. I put Tricia at your house lah. Her cries will wake everyone up! Fierce baby. Princess leh...

Her: I heard it in the bathroom. Andy (her future husband) asked whose baby and I answered her should be your baby coz higher pitch.

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Hubby carry Tricia while I carry Caden

Caden is so busy while Tricia heck care him and continue her sleep...

Caden: *Evil Eyes*
Tricia: Zzz..zz...

Caden: Hmmm...

Caden smile so wide when he touched Tricia's hand

Wahaha~! I am so happy lah. I get to hug my nephew while my parents and sisters had a closer view at Tricia finally. Past few weeks were like so hectic as all of us were busy with lots of stuffs. Parents look at Tricia awhile and start to busy with sister and her baby.

Dunno why, I had a very enjoyable xmas eve tonight. :) Wish everyone has a great xmas eve night too. (^.^)v Merry Christmas!

P/S: I just cut my hair till very short and got rebonded. As usual, hubby never praised me at all though my family said that I look nice with this hairstyle. My uncle even said I dun look like a mother at all. Haha! (fyi, my hubby dun like me with 'un-natural' hair, that's explain)

Happy birthday to me

2009-12-22T23:59:00.003+08:00

I used to have friends and family around to celebrate my birthday. But this year, I did not celebrate my birthday at all. I'm sick actually - flu. I have to wear mask before I carry my baby also. Faint.

No wonder Shuting they all asked me whether I am free on the coming Tuesday (which is my birthday) during my baby first month party. I was not aware that it is my birthday on the coming 'Tuesday' at all. I just know that my hubby took off that day so I told them that I am not free. I told them to meet on next coming Tuesday instead. Lolx~!

I am glad that my birthday was not an empty one. All wishes from my sweetest and nicest friends of all from facebook and sms. My mama called me whether I do know it is my birthday today and she had already prepared angbao for me and see when I free to go out with her. :D

Last but not least, at 10pm plus, my cute colleague came to my house and represent by everyone to pass me the birthday gift they had bought for me.

A handbag where I can put baby stuffs :D

2010 Planner

Seriously, they really really really read my mind! Just nice I need a cute bag to put baby stuffs and so coincidentally that I need a 2010 planner book! Mitch gave me 2009 planner book that time and I really made FULL use of it. Haha!

The only sad thing was, my hubby did not wish me happy birthday at 00:00am sharp. He only then wish me when I told him at 1am. Faint. No birthday cake also. :( But anyway, I am on diet now. Haha!

This year birthday really special. Although no birthday cake (first time leh), Tricia is there for me whining and want me to carry her nia then she stop crying. It's a good thing that she only wants me. But I am going back to work soon, so... it is a bad thing! Gonna push her to her grandma liao. -_-'''

P/S: I saw one of my friends at causeway point outside kiddy palace today. He said hi to me but I can't really remember his name. So paiseh lah. Now I know why weekhee said it is more embarass when you cannot even recognise your friend than your friend cannot remember who are you. Lolx~! But I still chat with him abit without asking him who is he. I scare he malu lah. =\

5 more days to Tricia's first month

2009-12-15T12:24:00.010+08:00

5 more days... I am so excited. In chinese traditional or my hubby's family's law, we can bring her out only after her first month. But there is something I really curious about... :\

Wondering why Tricia can bring out gai-gai right after her first month, which is 30days but not 40 days instead (coz' ker's mum said she cannot attend others' party within 40 days). =\ I never ask more coz' different family got their own law de. Keke~!

But luckily my family don't follow such law and they are coming to Tricia's first month (even though my sister is doing her confinement at mama's house. But she's not coming as we cannot so-called 'clash' one another lor).

Papa and Mama are Tricia's grandparents, so the more they should come! :D

Show you some pictures and video on my little princess, Tricia. :D
P/S: But I have not yet upgraded to Queen yet. Lolx~!

Showing her active movement :)

Daughter looking at Daddy vice versa

Give Daddy a punch on nose!

She can able to see e movement of.. :)
(regardless things or human, or even camera!)

Poor Tricia, she is suffering from Eczema currently and went to see doctor yesterday. Did not realise that children see doctor super expensive till yesterday. =\ But hopefully the cream and soap liquid doctor prescribe will make her rashes better. I juz wanna her be pretty pretty on this Sunday lah. :(

Just love her as much as my mama love me. :) I have three important people in my life now. But somehow one of them dun like the other one. Phew~!

Ever since Tricia born, I realised that I have becoming more and more independent. Capricorn is a strong and independent woman but family-minded person. Lolx~! This is why I still love my family and my little princess. :D

Tricia has brown eyes and hair

2009-12-11T19:29:00.005+08:00

When Tricia is born, I ask my hubby immediately whether she has my eyes color or hubby's one. Hubby said my eyes color - black. I was quite a little disappointed coz' I always think female has brown eyes is more attractive. But anyway, she looks like me, why not!

But this week while I was feeding her with milk in the sunny day. I realised that she has brown eyes! This is because I can see her pupil in her eye ball. :D

Can you spot that her eyeballs color are brown? :D

I still cannot confirm her hair color until last week. And I confirm that her hair color follow me! Hubby's hair color is kinda of light black like ash color. For mine it is brown color. And for Tricia...

在看我吗？

Hair color is brown! :D

Guess she really got a mixture of me and hubby's features. Haha...

Hair color: Me
Eyes ball color: Ker
Nose: Me
Nose bridge: Ker
Upper lip: Me
Lower lip: Ker
Eyes enlargement: Me
Double eye lid: Ker
Ears: Me
Gender: Follow me!

So I am the winner. Haha!

Hmmm...

And yes, one more thing. She is also as hairy as her mum. =x

Wahahahahaha~!

Abit dark here coz' at night aka no flash night is allowed.

Posing like a Saturday fever retro style?

P/S: I am so bored now. Baby is now under her grandfather's hands while hubby went for his badminton game. So... I am a slacker now.

P/S/S: Someone is showing black face to me today out of no reason. Phew! Heck care~

想握你的手

2009-12-09T10:59:00.007+08:00

Eversince baby was born, Ker & I never hold each other hands anymore. I remember the last time he held my hands was when I was in pain due to contractions aka during the pushing. After I delivered, he never once held my hands le. But seeing him carry our baby, is more than enough.

After I discharge from hospital, I was in pain due to stitches. I dun need anyone to hold me as I need to walk by myself to ease the pain. When people holding me, I may feel the pulling and dragging which caused more pain.

Most of the times, I only saw Ker and myself holding baby's hands. Her hands are so small and mini size. So cute especially when she also hold our hands. We cannot believe that she is so strong. When she is throwing her temper, she will kick and kick like 黄飞鸿的無影腳. Lolx~!

This morning, I woke up early and look at baby. Glad that my in-laws helping me to take care of her. She was drinking her milk in an engross way. So cute. I went back to bed after that.

I was looking at Ker when he was sleeping so soundly. Dunno for why, I reached out my hand to hold his hand. So warmth and big... but the 'holding' was different as he never hold my hand this time. He sleep like a pig. Haha~! But this is more than enough.

And stupid alarm, rang this time and caused him to wake up. :( Time flies or will never be enough especially when you are enjoying. I asked for a hug from him and it only lasted less than a minute. =\ He was still in a sleepy mode I guess.

Husband and wife and baby. Sometimes spend a little time with your partner when your baby is sleeping or under others' care. This is to let your partner knows that you still love him/her. :)

Do not be a Tyrant

Be Partners in the Decision Making Process.

Never be Emotionally

Be Careful of Your Words Especially when you are angry

Show Affection

Be Your Spouse's Friend

Show Appreciation

Work Together in the House

Communication is Important

Forget Past Problems When it already been solved

Live Simply

Give Your Spouse Time Alone

Admit Your Mistakes

Physical Relationship is Important

Have Meals Together

Be Mindful of Your discussion Topics

Good marriages require patience, kindness, humility, sacrifice, empathy, love, understanding, forgiveness, and hard work.

I miss hugging him tightly... But I dun smell as fragrant as before coz' my last bathe was on last Monday. =\ I will hug him in my next bathe bah. -_-'''

Post-natal Massage

2009-12-07T12:35:00.004+08:00

Signed up for post-natal massage 2 weeks ago and started my massage on last Thursday. Rose, the Malay massage lady was introduced by Shuting's sister. She is a person who very nice to chat with and willing to explain to you the procedures and effects of the massage patiently.

During my first session with her, she told me that my womb is already smaller. This is a good sign that my womb is able to decrease in size in such a short period. So she will help me to make my womb go back to original size, lose my body fats and most importantly is tummy fats.

From these sessions, I can see my tummy is getting smaller. Just that the flabby fats still there and can be seen when I am sitting down. To get rid of this kinda of fats is to do exercise. I will go for a run in the morning with hubby during weekends. For weekdays wise, I will have to climb the staircase regularly as what I did during my poly times when I was on diet program.

Just had my 5th massage this morning. The malay woman said that my tummy is smaller, so she decided to pin up the second (tighter) buttons. =\ It caused me eat even lesser during my lunch just now.

Rose is a good massager. Her hands are really strong enough. Perhaps to me lah. For my elder sister wise she might need a man to help her massage as she okie with hard massage. Lolx~! I also introduce Rose to my sisters.

Rose is not only handling pre and post-natal massage. She also handling slimming massage. She is going to massage for my elder sister tonight as my elder sister wanna be slimmer before her wedding day comes. Haha!

$60 per session, 1 hour for each session (She will do more than 1 hour usually)
But if you signed up for her package, $500 for 10 sessions consecutively.

If you want it for more after finished her package, she will charge you $50 still for next session. :) Want her service? Get her contact no. from me then. I dun earn any advertisement money from her btw. Haha!

Tricia is already 2 weeks old!

2009-12-05T10:44:00.007+08:00

Time flies. Dunno why, how I wish she knows how to play with us now. But this usually applies to 2-3 months babies bah. =\ She only like to throw temper at times, purposely cry infront of us and just wanna us to carry her or feed her with milk. =\

Haven't really post any pictures aka story of her yet. So I shall post it now. :D

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Day 1

She already know how to use "evil eyes" to look at us... lolx~!

Day 2

Family of 3

Day 3

Even her crying look and sound also adorable.. =x

Day 4

Discharge from Hospital and she is trying to look at the surroundings...

Day 5

Only Pacifier can calm her down... -_-'''

Day 7
One week old

She prefer to sleep in side way position..
(Just like her mum lor)

Day 9

Realise something?

She rely her hand towards her face when sleeping leh...
(Just like ME!)

Day 10

Dunno why sometimes she likes to sleep on sofa..

Day 11

Browsing at her jungle playpen
(Bought by Melvin, Shuting, Xk, Jinnah & Yankai)

This also bought by them. :)

Day 13

I wonder...

Day 14
Two weeks old

I am two weeks old now! :D

There are so many cute photos of Tricia. :) Wondering why she keep smiling in her dream. So cute and I always ask her can share with me her sweet dream or not. Lolx~!

Maternity Makeover

2009-12-02T22:21:00.002+08:00

Well, I never do maternity makeover. This is what I regret of. Seeing others did maternity makeover for their first pregnancy, I feel so envious. :( Wanted to argue with hubby about this but he show no interest at this at all. What to do?

I dare not post naked totally lah. But I like to have cute and fun shot together with hubby. Just that the other party dun like this kinda of thing. It takes two hands to clap. So.. I never go for it in the end.

Regret lah. :( What about second pregnancy and go for it? Nope, it will not be the same as the first time. :'( I always cannot make the decision. Argh!

Shouldn't complain now. Coz' Tricia is already out. =\ Tomorrow will be her expected delivery date but she already 13 days old liao. Lolx~!

I should think positively. This is why I try to focus on Tricia now. Other than Tricia, I took out all of my past memories from blog, photo albums and gifts to flash back the sweetest moments.

This do works and worth a smile from my face but dunno why heart will feel a bit sour at times.

Wish to go back to work asap but can't bear to leave my little princess at home. Can I bring her to work? Haha...

Today no sight of blood clots at all. :( Neither I wanna eat the medicine anymore. Tomorrow my malay massager will be coming to my house early in the morning. She will massage for me for ten days to help me to slim down faster. I do hope it will help my blood to circulate faster so that blood clot will be out. =\

Eyesights getting blurrer. I hope this will not cause any bad signs. Sighz.

Failure me

2009-12-02T15:57:00.004+08:00

She brought over the food on Saturday after a week of my delivery.
Food was rejected coz' here do not recommend to eat such foods now.
They throw the food away to the dustbin.

She brought over Sesame oil chicken on Sunday.
Before rejection from here, I told her to bring back the foods.
I dun wanna ended up disagreement and dustbin ending again.

She called me just now that she has made 3 bottle of wines.
She wanna give it to me one bottle but I reject her.
I told her I dun wanna disagreement from here again just in case.
She felt sad but never comment much.

I feel sad too. It is hard to accommodate two people from different mindset.
I feel myself so useless and failure.
She wants the best for me yet here thinks she is no good.
What a joke.

Feeling so vexed, I washed my hair in the basin yesterday night.
But the mood never be better still.
Looking at baby, is the only way to distract my attention for a while.

:)

Suffer from Cramp

2009-12-02T09:37:00.003+08:00

Went for post-natal check up yesterday. Doctor helped me to scan and said that I still have large blood clot inside my abdomen. He prescribed medication - Cytotec, four tablets for me which need to be eaten on these two nights.

The effects of this medicine is to let the blood clot comes out. However, the cause is that, cramp will occur around abdomen.

And yes, I ate two tablets on yesterday night at around 10pm with my other medication as well. At around 10.40pm, the pain started. Not only abdomen cramp (it's a slight pain in fact), my back suffer from a greater pain. Dunno why, my gastric cramp too. :( I tried to massage my stomach and back but no effect.

In the middle of the night, I woke up due to the greater pain of gastric. I tried to bend my body to ease the pain, and I fell asleep. This morning, my gastric even more pain. After finish feeding my baby, I went to grab a pack of biscuits to eat.

Feeling much better now. You can't tell others how much pain you suffer coz' they can do nothing about it. They might choose to ignore you. Lolx~!

Looking at my baby sleeping so soundly and so adorable, I do not wish to think of other things. Read up some information from Google Search and I think I got PND. =\ Alvy was right, regardless how normal you are, you still might suffer from PND if things are not going smoothly.

SO... I gonna keep myself busy by reading more and etc. -_-'''

Accept

2009-12-01T18:51:00.002+08:00

You have to accept the way she is.
Just because she also accept the way you are.

You have to accept the family she has.
Just because she also accept your family.

You have to accept what kinds of friends she has.
Just because she also accept what kind of friends you have.

You have to accept the stuffs she comment.
Just because she also accept your whatever comments.

You have to accept her everything.
Just because, she loves you and you love her.

Just realised that I am going to breakdown soon. Dunno why I can't really see things clearly when I went out for a checkup at Sun Plaza today. People and things away from me 100m are unclear. Guess I need to change my spec soon. =\

A Hubby's Role After Delivery

2009-11-28T10:59:00.006+08:00

I wrote a post before regarding about your wife is pregnant before. Click Here. :)

Before pregnancy, the woman will feel totally different from what you see her when she was not pregnant. But after she giving birth (regardless normal or c-section delivery), she needs even more care and concern from you due to her pain and weak body.

So it is the time for me to write another post about how to take care of your bravo and greatest wife after her delivery.

Learn to take care of your baby
Your wife can sit back and relax instead of running errands taking care of baby. Her stitches is still not recover yet (Requires two weeks time) so she should not move around so much.
Massage for her
Yes, before and after your wife still need a good massage. If she took epidural or anesthetic, the more you should do. From my experience, my spine and back always pain especially when i bend down to change diapers for baby.
Breast-feeding
When you wife is pumping out the milk, do help her to use a cloth to soak with hot water and put around her breasts so as to circulate the milk faster. When she is done, help her to use cold cloth to cover her breasts so as to prevent from soreness. She will feel much better in this way.

Don't forget to help her to wash the pump and bottle instead of making her to walk around.
Be there for her when baby is sleeping
This is the time for bonding as a husband and wife. She might need you, your hug and/or even your kiss. Baby's cries will make her feel tensed up at times. She just wants you to show a little more concern. It is the time that she needs you, not you need her.
Talk to her when you sense something wrong
She is not something wrong. She just feel stress and tired. If you ignore her, she will feel depress and start thinking all sorts of craps. Think of what is Post-Natal Depression. DO NOT treat this as her usual temper and thinks it is normal.
Sanitary Pads
She might finish them soon. So if you are caring enough, check for her or rather ask her whether she need more and which brand she use. (If you are super caring, you will know what brand she use. Haha!) Don't be shy or embarrass, just BUY for her! :)
Confinement Meals
Be a supportive hubby, eat what she eat now. Don't criticize the foods as she needs to eat them for entire one month! But do remember to drink more water coz' the foods that she ate super heaty. Lolx~!
Figure & Tummy
Her figure will turn out to be a better one than you see when she was pregnant. However, it will not be the same as before when you date her. But still, you have to praise her that she slim down a lot. If you are caring enough, tell her that you do not mind her figure at all. Keke~!

As for tummy, most of the mommies had stretch marks and still look so bloated. Do help her to massage her tummy in order to let the 'bloated' tummy to diminish and this do helps the stretch marks disappear gradually too. :)
Medication
Your wife shouldn't be walking around to fetch her medicine. As a hubby, please do not remind her but remember to help her fetch the medicine and water to let her eat her medicine.
Shower
Help her to wipe her legs as she cannot anyhow bend down. Her back is very crucial now in this one month. If you don't even help her with this, her back gonna suffer in future time.
Hunger
You might see her eating little during her meals. Try to ask her in about 4-5 hours later whether she is hungry or not. For my case, I always feel hungry easily 4 hours later after my meal. Brew hot Milo or cereal, and grab few pieces of biscuits for her.
Baby vs. Hubby
You may see her prefer your baby more than you nowadays. She still love you as before, just that she is too tired after settling the baby. So do not stop your love for her. It's your turn now to do the things she used to do for you. (Eg. Cutting fruits, kiss her whenever you wake up in the morning, going out to work, back from work and good night kiss, massage for her, fetch water for her, etc.)

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My stitches still in pain even though a week is already over. :( Walk like a tortoise and sit like an old lady. =\ Back also pain. Especially when I need to bend myself to help Tricia change her diaper or carry her.

Kinda of feel tensed up these few days. But when baby is sleeping or when it is feeding time, I really enjoy looking her. She is so adorable. So I must be strong to take care of my little princess.

I love her, my precious... (^_^)

Labor Experience Part II

2009-11-26T13:37:00.006+08:00

When nurse checked and felt that I am ready, she brought me to labor ward. It was so scary to see the bed... the trolley which placed all the operation 'cutlery'... But luckily got mini TV there to capture my attention. Unfortunately, it is to capture hubby's attention as I keep shivering and never bother to watch the TV at all.

Shivering caused my neck super tiring coz it was like teeth biting teeth, making your neck abit stiff. So I asked hubby to help me to massage my neck. Keke! Suddenly, nurse placed two leg cushions (left & right) and asked me to put my legs on it. I was like.. more frighten.. Then she asked me to try to push and see how it goes. So I... breath in hard and... PUSH! Count 1 to 10... Then breath out. Phew! This process I tried about 3 times but nothing come out. Lolx~!

About 30 minutes later, here comes my gynae, Dr Ang. While preparing his attire and 'cutlery', he watching TV first. Hubby was kinda of frustrated when he saw Dr. Ang keep watching TV. So he asked Dr. Ang whether he can switch off the TV or not. Dr. Ang replied him: "oh, it is okay. TV can distract her attention." So hubby diam diam lor.

Okie, it's time for pushing again. Breath in hard and... PUSH! Count 1 to 10... then breath out. I have do these for about 5 times. The nurses keep pulling my legs, push my tummy to outwards and shout with me. -_-''' And YES!! Finally the baby was out!

Seriously, when he pull the baby out, I can't feel anything. This is what I kinda of disappointed even though I saw my baby was out from there. Hubby cut baby's umbilical cord and started to video her when nurse brought her to the 'warmer' container to wipe away the blood and waterbag skin. I dunno wat is that call.

The baby doctor came in and checked the baby and nurse weighed Tricia, 3.04kg. I thought I have a 3.4kg baby leh. But anyway, above 3kg is consider average le. :)

Hubby was forced by me to carry baby although he was a little scare that time
(I want him to be the first man to carry our baby.. Haha!)

Will I consider to get pregnant again? I think I will but 2 years later bah. Lolx~! But I will not opt for inducement for sure. The pain was like, fast and super hell. Phew...

Family of 3 (Will be increase soon after 2 years. :D)

Baby is really cute. :D

Labor Experience Part I

2009-11-24T17:40:00.009+08:00

Hope I can remember the entire incident on that day. :) Here I begin...

On last Saturday (21st Nov 2009), my hubby and I went to clinic to see my gynae in the morning. At first, doctor already recommend us to go for induce so we thought that on that day itself we can tell him the date we have chosen - 24th Nov 2009.

During the check-up of baby and mother, doctor asked me whether I have decided to go for the inducement or not. I looked at my hubby and my hubby told him yes, we have decided to go for the inducement. And you know what, doctor immediately put in the pill for inducement. Faint. We dun even have the chance to tell him we want which date lor. (Time: 10.45am)

Doctor asked me to wait at outside for ten minutes. After 5 minutes, I can feel the pain sensation already but was on my butt. After ten minutes, I went in the observation room for checking the contraction timing. I can feel the pain was increasing. :(

After about 30 minutes, doctor asked us to go home and get prepared to go to hospital at 3pm. Bear with the pain, I bath myself quickly and start checking the necessary things to bring. Instead of waiting till 2pm, hubby decided to bring me to hospital. (Time: 1.20pm) The pain was just... like you having diarrehoa but shit just cannot come out, but including butt and back pain.

While traveling to hospital, I felt a bit hungry. Luckily hubby's car got snacks (I always helped him to top up just in case he feel hungry after work). When the contraction stop, I quickly eat up the snack. When the contraction starts again, I stop eating immediately and press the car hanger and my right seat sponge. =\ Eat about two rolls, I decided to stop and look forward to hospital. Worse is, got traffic jam.

When we reached the hospital, hubby quickly helped me to register. When walking to the lift up to the ward they assigned, I cried for no reason except pain. The pain was not that unbearable, but I just dunno why I cried bitterly. Haha~! (Time: 2.30pm)

When reached the ward, I keep pressing hubby's hand while he do the counting for me. Less than 2 minutes my contraction started again and last for about 30s or more. Hubby went to inform the nurse and here the nurse brought me to the observation ward.

Inside the observation ward, the nurse check for me and... it's really painful. :( She asked me whether I want to go for Epidural or not so I asked her whether Epidural will cause side effect or not and she told me the medicine is more advance than the past. She told me to take it if I cannot tahan the double pain than I suffered now. So... I agreed to take Epidural. (Time: 4pm)

Before Epidural, my gynae Dr. Ang came in and broke my water bag. It was so pain that I keep making sound and grabbing the metal railing before me. Later on the nurse put in the fleet liquid to my XXX and let me poo poo all the stuffs I ate. This caused me suffer a greater pain. The process was slow and super pain especially when contraction started. I grabbed the metal railing and bear with the pain. When the contraction ends, I push my XXX to my extend to push the shit out. :x

After the process, my Epidural doctor came just in time. He asked me to bend like a C-shaped. At the same time, hubby helped me to bend my body while he asked me to hold his arm whenever I feel pain. Before the Epidural injection, he inject the anesthetic into my back first. I felt a sharp pain and hold hubby's arm tightly. While doctor preparing the Epidural injection, I remember that I keep grumbling a lot of things to hubby while holding his arm. (Time: 4.30pm)

After the anesthetic injection, I then realised that the Epidural injection was not pain at all. This is because I dun feel anything when he inject the Epidural for me. I even keep asking hubby whether doctor has finished the jab or not when the jab was already done. Lolx~!

Slowly... about ten minutes later, I dun feel really pain around my stomach and back le. But I still can feel the sensation below is expanding. Just that the pain is no longer there. Relieve after endure 6 hours of pain. Keke.

Waiting and waiting.. seeing hubby eating Roti Prata infront of me while I was still lying down shivering. (During Epidural effect, the body will keep shivering) Nurses came in a few times to check my blood pressure as Epiduralm will cause the patient blood pressure low. Quite a few times the machine failed to measure my blood pressure coz' my body keep shivering. So whenever the BP machine start, I try to breath in and out hardly to prevent myself from shivering. (Time: 8pm)

Will be continue...

Stress

2009-11-16T18:18:00.004+08:00

Dunno why.. somehow I feel a pressure on me.
I still have a school loan not yet start to pay off.
And this time baby is going to come out soon.

I already stop working since last Friday.
Perhaps this is call depression when one's not working.
I hope that everything goes well so that I can start work early.

Around 24th Nov is the delivery date.
So hopefully before Feb 2010 I can start work so as to clear off my debts asap.

2.5 years is the target to finish off the loan.
But 4 years is the maximum time that I can afford.

Nothing to wish for.
But I just hope for a simple life with no worries.
No loan anymore, so I can plan for an accompany for my precious Tricia.
:)

Maternity Farewell Dinner @ Long Beach

2009-11-09T20:29:00.001+08:00

My pretty boss organized a maternity farewell dinner for me last Friday at Long Beach @ Dempsey. But before we set off to the location, let's see how my office look like. :)

My table~

Kapo from Eve's bouquet

The two big kids playing iphone game

It was hard to get a big taxi (Wasted, else I can take picture of it) during peak hour so we decided to split into two cabs. Gary, Roger, JunJie and me in a cab while Boss, Max and Tina in another cab. Ct joining us afterwards as he went to fetch his wife. Angela and Lipeng did not join us coz one was not feeling well and the other was preparing for exam respectively.

Being the first batch to reach there, so I decided to take pictures on every special ones.

Our private room - Hua ah!

Big table (Hold up to 12 people)

Light Design

Okay, took some pictures with my colleagues cum friends. :)

JJ & Me
(My poly junior)

Roger & Me
(My uni fren's buddy - Height: 193cm)

Sexy wet tissue

Roger & Tina trying to explore the camera smile detection function

So here comes the foods - seafoods!!!

Claypot with soup
(Specially for Geo-tuck)

Can eat in raw but preggie must eat while cooked~

Yummy~

Bamboo Clam

Hmmm...

Dong Po Meat

Delicious!!!

Needless to say, it's prawns!

Thanks to JJ, help to pluck~ :D

Black pepper crabs

Yummy~!!!

I took the big one~ =x

This is the first time I crave for more crabs!

Steamed Groupa

Herbs Chicken

Spinach

Ee-fu Noodles with shredded crabmeat

I thought that the dessert might be as posh as the dishes but...

A plate of fruits

I think too much. Haha... The dishes already so sumptuous I still expect for more. So mean! Lolx!

Boss bought an expensive red wine from dunno where, but it smell so good... JunJie not forgetting to take picture of it.

My pretty boss =)

Ang moh is her hubby :D

Ct, his wife and Tina
(I wonder why Tina look so glumpy =\)

After dinner, we decided to take pictures before we leave. Not forgetting a pose of myself too! :D

I am glad that my face still abit sharp~

GROUP PHOTOS!!! I asked boss's hubby to stand beside her but he said it's okie, dun have to stand with her. So cute of him lah.

Group Photo I

The auntie who helped us to shoot, shouted very loudly that she can't see that angmoh. -_-''' Boss and all of us keep laughing.. Keke~!

Group Photo II

I feel so bliss of having such a sweet aka nice boss and my wonderful colleagues. :) Although sometimes work will stress up people, without these nice colleagues, I guess my office life will be totally blackout. I'm so lucky this time round (my past working experiences and internships yucks), isn't it?

P/S: I will be back after my maternity. :D

Blackforest & Cheese cake

2009-11-09T20:12:00.005+08:00

Last week Tuesday was our dear boy boy aka shuai-ge's birthday. I have planned this event and get everyone of us involved. Of course, this surprised our little boy. :)

22nd Birthday

Pass the slice of cake around...

JunJie's head too big, so I helped him to wear~

Roger acting shy...

On Thursday, all of us went out lunch late due to busy schedule. Out of sudden at around 4.30pm plus, Lipeng told me that all of them bought a cheesecake for me. I was like, huh? They said it is for my maternity farewell. :D I love cheesecake!

Bought at Market Street
(No wonder they had long lunch that day, haha!)

wow...

I wonder who is this ger. -_-'''

Isn't they so sweet to me? :) The cheesecake is so yummy and can even beat over Don Pie cheesecake! Left five pieces and they told me I can give whoever I like. I gave one to PH (Mr. Nice guy, boss from other dept as he helped me once before) The rest of the four pieces I dabao home coz' I wanna share with my hubby. Hehe!

On Saturday morning, hubby and I wipe up finish the four small slices of cheesecakes. Glad that Alex, hubby's brother never notice my cheesecake coz' he love cheesecake as much as I do too! Heehee!

S.H.E @ Causeway Point

2009-11-08T22:32:00.006+08:00

Been dragged by hubby to come and see SHE at Causeway Point. Hubby knows that I like them and love to sing their songs so he decided to bring me to see them. I told him that I had no habit of going to see stars, I just enjoy listening to their songs will do. But...

he still bring me to HERE. Lolx~!

Tall man has privilege. I cant see them at all. But hubby able to see them and take clearer picture. Phew~!

I wonder.. if I really queue up and get their signature, will Ella come and touch my stomach? Lolx~! But the queue was freaky long, I dun wanna waste my time. Haha~!

S.H.E Part 1

S.H.E Part 2

This is my first time seeing STARS. Or rather wooing STARS. Thanks to my hubby. Haha!

J & C Bakery + Novotel

2009-11-08T22:10:00.005+08:00

Last week Sunday, Hubby and I went to Block 15 Woodlands Loop to buy some snacks and cake at J&C Bakery. We drove to third level and buy a lot of stuffs. Banana cake, pinapple tarts and his favorite durian cream puff.

He always eat so happily with his fav. durian puff~

When we were ready to set off, hubby saw his another favorite, otar. So he bought three pieces. The uncle very funny. He asked hubby to buy 5 pcs lah, so hubby asked him.

Hubby: 3 pcs $3, 5 pcs leh?
Uncle: $5.

So hubby said 3 pieces will do. Thought that this uncle will give discount if we buy more but ended up still the same price lah. Lolx~!

Later on we drove to Novotel at Clarke to attend my aunt's wedding. She's only 5 years older than me and I have to call her aunt. This is due to... my ah ma and mother give birth very early. Lolx~! Big family lah.

I look so pale without make-up lah...

I really dun like being fat.. :\

Hubby hug my cousin

Ah ma & mama (Opoos, flash too strong!)

With my papa~

Family shot :D

My aunt and her hubby
(Isn't she pretty?)

Okay, more posts will be updated soon. I wanna distribute them in different posts coz' I can visit my blog again for previous 'specific' entry/entries. :)

Gonna be alone in hospital...

2009-11-03T10:33:00.002+08:00

I wanted to opt for 1 bedded for my delivery ward at first. But hubby said that what if baby or I require longer stay (TouchWOOD!), charges will be more expensive. But in 2 or 4 bedded room, your family member is not allow to stay with you.

In the past when I admitted to hospital, mama always there for me. Even though she is a heavy smoker and dun really able to sleep well at night, she still insist to accompany me till I discharge. Of coz, when noon time, she will go home and rest abit and come back accompany again during night time. She just wanna watch me over the night.

But this time, after giving birth, I will be staying in the hospital alone. I am thinking, will hubby reach before I wake up? Will hubby go off after I doze off?

Having a short conversation with Alvy just now.

Alvernia says:
U sure u will be ok?
I think best he stay with u
so luckily my hubby was there all the time
And also you have ur own room then also more privacy
But after giving birth i was v depressed
Esp . . .

Actually I am not okay to stay alone in hospital. :( And I told her that I already have pre-natal depression. This is why I wanna come out work to prevent myself keep thinking and find things to argue with my hubby.

Sighz. If I can predict that baby and I only required to stay hospital for 2 days, both are healthy, then I shall opt for 1 bedded. But who knows.

:(

Last day of work @ Airport

2009-10-24T12:28:00.002+08:00

I woke up at 8.30am this morning but slack and stir around till 8.50am. I called my mama to check whether she has awake or not. Glad that papa and mama already awake and asked them to drive me to Block 15, Woodlands Loop to buy brownies for Ker's colleagues.

After that, they dropped me at Woodlands MRT. I abit hungry so I went to buy Mac'donald breakfast. Thought of ordering $2.50 meal so that I wont feel so full. In the end the cheap meal only available during weekdays. Lolx! So I bought McGriddles instead and I got monopoly stickers. So played with it while on my way to Changi Airport by bus 858 lor. I also secretly eat my breakfast on the bus. :x

On the bus, I keep wondering whether should I take taxi or not. Coz' I just cannot stand traveling on the bus. Turn here and there. Phew! But I keep bear with it, tell myself I should not spend unnecessary money since I already on the bus. Endure.. endure.. I keep adjusting my sitting position, ended up the girl besides me keep thinking that I wanna get down. So paiseh lah.. =\

About to reach there, I asked my hubby's colleague whether he still there or not. Replied yes so I decided to msg my hubby.

Me: I have reached le. Where are you?
Him: Huh?
Me: Paiseh, msg wrong people.

When I stood outside of the window, I msg hubby again.

Me: I am at outside now. :)
(But hubby super busy to see his hp msg)
Me: Can you come out a while to take something from your wife? :)
Him: Ok.

He came out and asked me...

Him: How you come here? (Abit fierce)
Me: Bus lor.
Him: You come with who? (Still abit fierce)
Me: Alone lor.
Him: But later I got farewell lunch with Mr XX they all leh. (Slight fierce)
Me: Nvm arh, I still very full, and I got bring laptop.
Him: Ok, I very busy now, you go walk walk. (Nice nice liao...)
Me: Okie~

Just wanna give hubby a surprise to go to his workplace. His last day of work today and he gonna transfer out. Think about it, I have not go to his workplace for more than 6 months eversince I am pregnant plus H1N1. :\ But instead of not a Surprise to him, I think I have added burden to him. :(

I am pregnant and yet I come here all the way.
He will feel worry about me being alone.
He having difficulties sandwich between me and his colleagues for lunch.
He too busy now to chat with me.

Sighz. I really dun mean to disturb him leh. I just wanna give him a surprise while I still not tied up with baby. Dunno why, I miss being carefree person. Now I am so clumsy and even add burden to hubby. Lolx~!

He off at 3pm. Now already 1pm. I dun mind waiting actually. I just dun like traveling on the bus for long hours. :(

When he comes out, if he wanna scold me, I will just say...

Coz... Mama and baby miss you... :x

Eh, will this sweeten his heart? Haha! I go poo poo liao. Ciao~!

Similar

2009-10-18T22:18:00.001+08:00

If you like to be crazy, you go other places crazy.

If you like to wait for people, go and wait for other guys, dun wait for me.

Isn't it similar?

吳克群 - 愛太痛

2009-10-18T21:05:00.001+08:00

A great song from 吳克群 - 愛太痛.

作詞：吳克群作曲：吳克群

吃不能吃睡不能睡
沒有了你全都不對
我都學不會把愛敷衍
用笑容來把眼淚催眠

笑不能笑哭不敢哭
人不像人鬼不像鬼
朋友都說這不過失戀
但我卻連呼吸都膽怯

能不能不愛了因為愛太痛了
我痛得快死了卻無法把你忘了

能不能不愛了愛情它太痛了
我痛得快死了卻無法把愛割捨

我不能睡~

吃不能吃睡不能睡
沒有了你全都不對
我都學不會把愛敷衍
用笑容來把眼淚催眠

能不能不愛了因為愛太痛了
我痛得快死了卻無法把你忘了

能不能不愛了愛情它太痛了

我不能夠

不能夠不愛了

能不能不愛了因為愛太痛了
我痛得快死了卻無法把你忘了

能不能不愛了愛情它太痛了

我不能夠

不能夠不愛了

吃不能吃睡不能睡

XK's belated birthday

2009-10-18T14:53:00.006+08:00

Due to last Saturday I was not free to have lunch with XK, I decided to give him a surprise party on Monday, though it's already 2 days late. =x

On last Saturday, I asked SanSan & Stanley to help me to book Xk for a meeting on Monday evening while I told Xk to come out for a dinner on Monday evening as well. As usual, at the very last minute which was on Monday morning, he told me that he cannot make it for dinner with me and the rest coz' he got important meeting too. I replied him in a very sad way and he apologized to me. Oki, PLAN A successful!

SanSan and Stanley had booked him for evening meeting to discuss about FYP proposal. I called the catering delivery up - Golden Pillow 933 and order dishes for 8 people. PLAN B okie!

However, they all REALLY got meeting and caused me, shuting and jinnah waited for them more than 40mins. So in the end three of us decided to eat the foods first while waiting for them to come. =\

Shuting behaved like a hungry ghost. Haha, guess she really very hungry bah. =x After we have finished our foods, the guys finally came. On their way walking to our side, we quickly lighted up the candles on top of the bread. Xk was shocked to see us. PLAN C successful! =D

Shuting bought the candles that cannot blow off at all. What a cute idea she had. And from the video below, you can see how much saliva Xk spilt out while blowing off the candles. Luckily I have eaten mine already. *Sweat*

Next, Huixin's idea was to use the scotch tape to pluck Xk's legs hair. Wonderful. Haha! But Jinnah was even more cruel than her. Watch this video. Lolx~!

After that, the rest went to eat their dinner. Guess they really very hungry already. Lolx~! I saw one of my uni friends and chatted with her happily. We chatted quite a lot and this ended up I got few mosquitoes bite. -_-'''

After they finished their dinner, it's time for photo session. :D

Seems like someTWO is missing in this group right?

Yankai is in oversea while Mel not free that day =\

Me & SanSan
(I like her smile coz' she's sweet. :D)

Stanley, me and Shuting

Jinnah is trying to play with my camera - smile detection
-_-'''

The man in BLACK!

As usual, Xk will msg all of us that he really appreciate our efforts for planning this surprise for him. Haha.. Well, I hope his legs hair will grow, else really WEIRD. Lolx! Thanks to Shuting, SanSan and Stanley to make the efforts to plan these with me. And yes, Huixin's funny idea. :)

Hugz~

2009-10-15T13:38:00.005+08:00

Just went out lunch with two good friends. I asked her how her boyfriend asked her for patch back. Coz' I really do miss the times when my and hubby broke off, then we patched back again after a week later, and we hugged each other so tightly as we really miss each other a lot.

It is very important that couple hug tightly to know that we still love each other... need each other.. just like we are one another soul. Without you, I will feel totally lost and no direction at all.

Also, it always so great to hug each other... to feel warmth and concern. Or rather, to feel love, being loved.

Sometimes we do need a hug in a romantic ambiance...

Or even sexy hug...

Even when we grow older.. we still need hugs...

When you not around, I will just pretend that I am hugging you when I actually hugging toy or bolster...

But frankly speaking, a hug from you, is always the best and warmest...

Sometimes when you are busy looking computer... I just like to hug you from the back... sniff your hair and neck... and feel your warmth... even your breath and heartbeat as well...

But we no longer hug each other tightly (face to face) now.. Coz I have a huge ball infront of me. Sighz... Or rather, he dun hug me as he used to... :(

Whenever I am cooking or cutting fruits, he will hug me from the back...
Whenever I am changing, he will just hug me...
Whenever we quarrel, he will hug me tightly when we okie already...
Whenever...

I miss his hugsssssssssssssssssssssssss.............................
Right now, he only sayang my tummy and kiss baby. =\

8th Month Pregnancy

2009-10-10T22:51:00.004+08:00

Forgot to show you guys the pictures about my 8th month pregnancy. :) Asked my hubby to take for me again. Heehee!

Too Big right?

But this picture abit deceiving. So I told him to take one more time that can show abit top de. Lolx!

Okie, looks better. Haha!

Baby's movement really a lot now. :) Hubby and I were using the baby microphone to talk to her and play music for her to listen recently and she moves a lot. :D

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Bought baby cot last week and hubby having a hard time to open the bed.We even went to metro to ask whether the baby cot got faulty or not. In the end Metro gave us the number to call.

Closed and just like four umbrellas right?

Fixing it...

Still fixing it...

The next day morning when hubby got home after morning shift, he called the number and they told him the procedure of fixing it. So he followed the procedure and in the end, it was so easy! Haha~!

Ta-dah~!

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Kapo the test tube (Meant for tea leaves) from company since the person left it empty there.

Remember this picture from this post?

Took out the sticker, wash and dry it. Put the LOVE SEEDS which hubby picked up for me when he proposed to me last year July. :)

Nice right?

And because of these love seeds....

We are married. Haha! I guess it was too easy to ask for my hands that day. I shall teach my daughter in future to hang herself high high. Haha! :p

Office Life =)

2009-10-10T21:08:00.008+08:00

Should have take picture of my office desk. But I forgot to do so. Let me decorate my office table with some cute stuffs before I take picture bah. Coz' it is just too plain as I dun put any stuffs. Tibits? All hide inside my drawer already. Lolx~!

Last week, due to hectic schedule, I do not have time for lunch at all. So Tina asked me whether I need a delivery order coz' she also no time to go out for lunch. So our team all ordered sandwiches.

More than $5 more just a sandwich

Now worth though. Coz' I dun feel full at all. Glad that I have some tibits to fill my stomach. Lolx~!

The next day, I went lunch with my two bodyguards coz' the rest of the colleagues no time for lunch as they have meeting. As usual, it's three of us again. Lolx~! I decided to eat at air-con area coz' never try there before also.

JJ's order

Max's order

My order

We ordered this as well

Ate till full and costed us less than $7 each. Lolx~! Even cheaper than Sandwiches. :x

Got mooncakes from dunno which supplier again. I love their packaging. :)

CT asked me to take picture with this box below my neck. I still blur blur wonder why.. Then I ask this box very nice.. dunno like design. Then they said me, Qipao lah! Arh bo why CT asked you to put below ur neck and take picture... Lol.. I slow lah...

And yes, mooncakes again. I had a lot that time. No wonder I gained about 4 kgs just merely one month. Lolx~!

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Last Thursday, our company held a dinner at Ion Orchard. Initially I was not involved in it coz' I am just an intern. However, got one of our colleagues was not able to make it so Angela asked me to join them. She very sorry for that as she just wanna fill up the empty seat while she also hope that I will join them.

I did think of a few concerns as this dinner might end late plus they never invite me at first what. But seeing my team keep asking me to join and do a favour for Angela, I decided to join. After all, it's free and luxury food! I seems so greedy uh, haha...

Venue: Ion Orchard, Taste Paradise

Menu of the day

Angela was intending to order shark fins but the Ang mohs dun dare to eat shark fins. Wasted. Lolx~! I was sitting with the angmohs and big big boss. I feel so pressure but glad that they are funny. But sometimes I dun get their jokes coz' they were talking about Vienna's office life. =\ I just look at their funny gestures and laugh lor. -_-'''

Settings

Lobster with egg white

Yummy...

Pan-seared fillet of Beef

Big white cabbage with Scallop sauce

Ee-Fu Mee

Mango Puree with Coconut Ice-cream

I love this dessert very much!

Overall the dishes are good but they serve too slow liao. Got two times two dishes served at one time. Phew! And worse is, I dun feel full. Haha! But also good lah, by the time I reach home also dunno what time liao, dun wanna stomach full go sleep lor.

How I wish that I can take pictures with those angmohs. It's cool you know! I was jokkingly with JJ that if I take picture with them individually, I can fake that I went to which countries leh. But hor, background all the same. Haha!

I should have not agree Angela that I go for this dinner. :( Coz' the next day I keep yawning non-stop. Haha! Glad that Max and JJ willingly to accompany me (As usual, my other colleagues were having meeting) to Honglim complex for lunch and buy my cheesecakes at Don Pie. :) Helped Tina bought chicken pies and cheesecakes for Gary and Lipeng. :D

Don Pie Cheesecake and Chicken Pie

Gary is sweet to his wife. He said that he wanna buy cheesecake for his preggy wife's supper. I feel soooo envious. Coz' my hubby dun always buy my favorite foods de.

But there was one time I told hubby that my stomach abit weird, seems hungry. Then he said that he will bring me to supper if I hungry. In the end I told him I will go drink half cup of milk then go to sleep coz' I dun wanna eat oily foods and grow fat. Lolx~!

P/S: Hubby's night shift. I am so... bored. :(

I love the way he concern me =)

2009-10-10T15:46:00.006+08:00

Last Thursday, my company had a dinner at Ion Orchard due to Vienna visitors. I thought it will end early but ended up I left at 10.20pm. I told hubby to go to sleep first if he is very tired coz' just like me, he had a long and tiring day at work.

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SMS with hubby

Me (10.13pm): Just finish dessert. But the bosses still talking. Think will reach home before 11.30pm. You go sleep first. I can walk home. Dun wanna you tired whole day.

Hubby (10.20pm): Ok. I go sleep le. Tomorrow on course 9am.

Me (10.25pm): Oki. I on my way home liao. Novena MRT le.
Me (10.35pm): Bad hubby. Wan an...

On my way home. I dunno why I still keep a lookout at the round-about carpark, just hoping that he will fetch me. Wanted to sms my friend to complain but just nice hubby msg me...

Hubby (11.10pm): Ok. Reaching sms me.

Me (11.12pm): Reach le. Walking to our void. =|

Hubby (11.13pm): Where?

Me (11.14pm): Void le. Lift liao.

(Reached home and walk to the room, saw hubby changing his top and hang back to hanger.)

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Our conversation...

Me: Eh? Why you haven't go to sleep? Thought you tomorrow on course?

Hubby: Waiting for you lor... Who fetch you back?

Me: No one arh.. I walk home myself from mrt. Our office no one driving de.

Hubby: How come no one driving?

Me: Work in City area mah. If drive to work very expensive.

Hubby: (Silent and continue play his game)

I dunno why I feel happy. In the past he dun usually wait for me and go to sleep first IF he got to work early the next day. But that night he wait for me. :D And he asked me so many questions. Don't you think he a bit possessive? I think abit, but I like the way he care and concern me. Heehee~!

But hor, if I think in negative side, He probably already pig if no game occupied him lor - Referring to Castle Age in facebook that already make him addicted to it.

If he really wanna fetch me, he already msg me that he will wait at Admir MRT when I told him that I reaching Novena. Game's fault lah.

Nevermind. Spare him for once. I just think in positive side can le. After bath and when we were going to sleep...

Hubby: "Can you dun reach home so late next time?" (in a gently and sweet voice)

Me: "This time is company dinner lah... hmmm.. Okie lah. :)"

I feel so blissful that night. :D I just love the way he so care for me. *Shy*

Will update the pictures on that night dinner soon. :)

32 weeks =)

2009-10-07T20:46:00.005+08:00

Tomorrow gonna marks the day of being 32 weeks pregnant. :D

32 Weeks Pregnant

I went for a routine check-up with hubby at Sembawang Plaza after my work just now. Doctor said that baby's weight should be in between 1.5kg to 2kg. My baby is 1.9kg right now - I do hope that she gonna be a chubby baby. :)

Doctor did a 3D scan for me too. The most obvious part is the nose of my baby. Round and cute nose! Doctor commented that her nose looks more like your wife. Wahaha~! =x I can tell you, her sleeping position also similar to me! ~ Put one hand around face when sleeping. Keke!

Hubby said that 3D scan not very obvious so I cannot conclude that our baby looks like me. Well, what I can say is, the father of baby is JEALOUS! Lalalalala~!

Weighed myself at 67.7kg. Phew, I gonna weight heavier than hubby sooner or later lor. In order to make him weigh heavier than me, I scoop another two spoons of rice in his plate. =x If grow fat, must together fat mah...

As usual, same as last two scans, baby head still located at the bottom while legs on top. No wonder my appetite is getting smaller and smaller as her legs are pressing against my gastric. =\ Luckily third trimster is not the process of "eat more for baby". But still, I have to eat enough for myself in order to utilize directly for my baby as this will increase her birth weight. :D

One Common 3rd Trimester Condition: Lack of Appetite

Many women find they have far less appetite later in pregnancy. One reason is the pressure of the growing fetus on your abdomen. There's simply less room for food. The best way to combat this is to eat something, even a small snack, every 3 to 4 hours. Don't drink water or juice with a meal. Liquid fills your stomach quickly, leaving less room for solid food.

Last week, we bought lots of baby stuffs including pacifier (Piyo Piyo's brand), bottles, baby cot, baby bath, wet tissues, etc. We also got a lot of baby stuffs from some relatives too such as mini bathtub, clothes, etc.

Gonna write down a list for my friends as I dun wanna them to buy baby new born clothes or other things which I already have during baby's 1st month. Not I thick skin, I just dun wanna you guys to buy things that I will not use at all or use awhile nia as baby grow up very fast de. Still, I am glad that my good friends do understand and told me to name the things out for them to buy. :) Love you guys much much!

Friends told me to let them know when I going to deliver. They dun wanna me deliver SILENTLY. Haha! And yes, I gonna let my hubby know who is the representative to sms and they will mass-sms to my other good friends too! Hehe~

Primary School: Tan Xiu Xiu
Secondary School: Jacob Wong, TCC
Polytechnic: XK Lin (I know he will let Sansan they all know too!)
University: Clarence Heng, Alex Chen, Eunice Yeo
Work: Tina Tan

Of course, not forgetting to login to my facebook and shout: "I going to TMC now to deliver!" Lolx~

Can you believe, I still got another 8 more weeks to go!!! 1...2....3... PUSH!!!
So freaking nervous lah!

老公好帅哦！

2009-09-27T20:43:00.004+08:00

This early afternoon, hubby wanna bring me to a good place to eat. He went to carpark to drive the car first while I waiting for him happily at void. He called me up and told me that his car tyre punctured and told me that he was at 3rd storey.

Mis-communication, I walked up to Carpark 3A to look for him. Ended up he was at 2A because his first storey is 1A, second is 1B, third is 2A... *Faint* I wanted to help him to screw the thing (lift up the car) while he focus the tyre but he rejected my help and asked me to sit the car and enjoy air-con.

Luckily I am not stupid at all. Coz' if I sit on the car, the car sure heavier de mah. Haha. So I took out one piece of newspaper and sit at the side waiting for him. Looking at him helplessly and saw his sweat keep on dripping, I decided to take out tissue to wrap his sweat and use the brochure in his car to fan him. :)

This is the first time I see him changing car tyre. So macho leh! Haha... Got one nice guy borrowed one of his equipments and told us that it will be easier for us to unscrew the tyre's screws by using that. It's really works though.

And I start to think and tell hubby...

Wow lau.. if I not preggy hor, then I wear nice nice, u go somewhere to hide, that nice guy sure helped me to fix the tyre de. And you see, he only borrow you the equipment, not helping you lor. Haha... wasted lah!

Hubby replied: "Ya lah ya lah..."

Lolx~! However, after everything is done, both of us felt that the tyre is too small compared to others. So we decided to go to the nearest car servicing to fix the tyre. Else I will worry if he is driving this kind of tyre to work de.

Spent $339.17 in total due to the front tyres already no friction plus the two brakes already gone case. (Two tyres - $192 & two brakes - $125) It's kinda of expensive but at least, it rest my mind and heart.

It's do cost a lot, but it has assured you a 'safety'

Okie, next week I cannot buy yam mooncake liao. Coz' today incurred a lot of costs le. :( Save for baby's stuffs next week 1st Oct. Coz' hubby and I gonna take leave and buy baby stuffs. Baby's scan always head on the bottom and legs on top. So this mean I am ready to deliver at any time. Haha, so must get ready first lor.

P/S: But still, I do hope that baby will deliver at the 40th weeks. :) Less than 10 more weeks to go!

MoooooonCakkkke~

2009-09-26T16:51:00.007+08:00

Last and this week, my company's vendors keep giving us mooncake. I see and eat till I scare liao. But nevertheless, I still enjoy eating mooncakes. :D

From Swee Heng

Total they gave us 3boxes. Wow!

From *C* Co. Their box very nice!

Got two tubes of tea leaves also leh!

Got one for dunno wat park hotel, one from fullerton hotel (their box the best design liao) - will show u guys when I got the pictures from my colleague, and dunno from where n where and my colleagues just give me try the mooncakes. Lolx~!

Bought durian mooncakes from goodwood park but ended give to mama coz' hubby never eat. I also bought 717 durians mooncake (9 minis) and give to mama 4 pieces while hubby got 5 pieces. But very fast, within 1 day hubby's family finish liao. I didn't even get to eat one piece lor. :( Well, I only get to taste the sample (so small piece) before I bought it nia. =(

Got these two pictures from sotongling @ blogspot

Mama said that she will leave one piece for me but I told her I dun want coz' I know she also loves to eat. :\ Sighz. Mama is the best, she will always save the best for me while I always save the best for my hubby. Faint.

Wanted to buy 717 durian mooncake again yesterday but they stopped the promotion 15% off and the reason was because the boss dun have enough stocks already. What is the logic behind this when your brochure put promotion till 25th Sept? So I never buy in the end just to save $6. :( I still never get to try that mini piece in the end. Argh!

Next week I gonna buy Fried Yam mooncakes from Garden. :) I am wondering why I always spend those money on foods while hubby never ever buy my favorite foods before. I am regret of doting him so much at first. I should have hang myself high high. Lolx~!

Gonna have mid-autumn festival in subsequence 3days next weeks. :D

3rd Oct
Celebrate with my hubby and his family (Will go my mama's house too!)
4th Oct
Poly Friend's Outing @ Melvin's ah ma's house

5th Oct
Celebrate with my uni-gang at Fort Canning

So freaking Exciting!!! Heehee~!

Last week Outing

2009-09-26T15:32:00.007+08:00

Went to meet Xk, Shuting and Melvin for late lunch last week Saturday. We went to eat high tea buffet at Zhou's Kitchen. I won't say the foods are superb delicious, but at least, it is tempting enough. Haha! But sadly, I did not take any picture of those foods. =\

Shop and shop and shop around, I bought one Pre-natal heart listener to listen baby's heartbeats and noises from her - moving around or kicks. Heehee~!

I dunno why still like this even though I have already rotate properly. Lolx~

But.. I can't hear baby's heartbeat. Maybe her fats too thick liao. Coz' I can hear my own heartbeat leh. Or is it because my tummy fats too thick? Lolx, but I still can hear abit of her moving around sounds lah. Hubby said that he can only hear weatery sound. Lolx!

Shop at Challenger and decided to buy this camera just for my delivery process shot and baby's video. :)

This camera very cute lor~!

Shop and shop and finally I feel hungry so I asked them to go eat some cheap and afforable bites. But dunno why we ended up eating snacks at Swensens. Lolx~ I am glad that I did not spend too much on this restaurant. :)

I miss this Apple Pie!!!

Melvin's breadie Soup

Xk's omelette

Melvin's fried mushroom

Shuting never order but she shared the foods with us. But also glad that she never order coz' we eat till full also with those snackkies. Lolx~! I had spent $600 in a day. Phew~! Nevermind, my next salary will come in 2 weeks time and this can replace the money back to my bank. Haha! But 1st Oct gonna spend money for baby's stuffs again. Phew~!

Meaningful Song =)

2009-09-24T17:41:00.004+08:00

Song Title: 本来
Sang by 同恩

下雨了
站在玻璃門裡頭
並沒有總是掛念著我
你帶著傘來接我
夜晚了
只剩老闆跟我
像從前你抽著煙皺眉頭
不知怎麼安撫太任性的我

本來不覺得你特別疼我
直到你不再疼愛我以後
已經過去雨傘和雨衣
不會再庇護我
本來不覺得你特別疼我
直到你不再疼我以後
來不及了
手寫的留言對像已經不會是我

停雨了
不必再躲雨了
已經過了該打烊的時候
還是不太想走
太晚了
只能坐出租車
為什麼想念著摩托車
常常會半路熄火的後座

本來不覺得你特別疼我
直到你放棄愛我以後
已經過去雨傘和雨衣
不會再庇護我
本來不覺得你特別疼我
直到你不再疼我以後
來不及了
長長的簡訊對像已經不會是我

走在濕漉漉紅磚道上
沿著導盲磚試著假裝
的確有點困難
也許我就這樣走路回家
反正你不再在乎幾點
該幾點回到家

本來不覺得你特別疼我
直到你再也不疼我以後
已經過去
雨傘和雨衣
不會再保護我
本來不覺得你特別疼我
直到你放棄愛我以後
來不及了
對不起長大太慢
害你遺失了我

抱歉
讓你白費了這麼多

I kick my hubby last night =(

2009-09-21T12:33:00.002+08:00

Last week, my hubby always kana elbowed by me when we were sleeping. This week, my hubby getting smarter. Whenever I turn around, he quickly hold my arm just in case I elbow him again. I can say that his reaction really fast enough. :)

This early morning, I think around 4am, while my hubby and I were sleeping, I dreamt of my daddy keep pushing his butt towards me and made me no space to move around. So I kicked my daddy - reflex action. So in the end, my hubby kana kicked by me without any warning at all. Poor him.

His morning shift today and he usually will wake up at 6.30am. But today, he woke up at 5am by my kick. :( He woke up and asked me why I kick him... =x

Think from tonight onwards, I gonna put my bolster in the middle so I won't elbow or kick him lor. Imagine, what if I kick his... front? =\ I will give him a good massage later in order to apologize to him. Lolx~!

Mama got a new maid

2009-09-19T12:18:00.004+08:00

The new maid came to mama's house on last Thursday. New maid can't speak good english and some of our English she also dun really understand. Coz' she's NEW, everything dunno bah. Haha. But glad that mama never bully her. Mama juz wanna her to clean the house everyday will do.

Yesterday I went over mama's house. I saw the new maid sitting down watching TV. Lolx... I asked mama why never give her works to do and she said coz' she has finished her work in the afternoon. But I saw some dirts on the floor. Phew~! I told mama that if she wanna let her watch TV, please watch those got English subtitles but chinese show de. Let her learn some chinese words to communicate with her mah.

I taught her some stuffs and asked mama to teach her wash all the fans tomorrow morning. The maid also feel weird standing beside mama and nothing to do de mah. Haha.. Seriously lah, mama also having difficulties to communicate with the new maid. One duck and one chicken. Phew~!

While I was eating porridge with my elder sister and her future husband-to-be, mama showed us that she did communicate with the maid. She drew it out to maid and told her what she scare of. In the end... She drew this!

Does it look like lizard?
(Mama scare of this the most!)

Cockroach?
(She told maid that she not scare of this)

All of us burst into LOUD laughter.. Wahahahaa! I really cannot stand my mama. Papa came out and asked us what we laughing at. I asked papa why he never tell maid that mama scare of lizard (papa know how to speak some malays) and papa said he dunno how to say lizard in malay. Lolx~!

What I can say is, this maid really fortunate to come to my mama's house. Coz' my mama really dote people a lot de. I just hope this maid dun bully her can liao. :\

Doraemon~ =D

2009-09-18T22:15:00.010+08:00

Bought one happy meal last Wednesday and got this Doraemi. :) Just nice, it can match with the Doraemon which lots of expression in his eyes de (I bought this from online for hubby).

I tried to turn the picture but it's still like this when uploaded it. =\

Hmmm.. looks like she trying to kiss him...

So I decided to change their expression and take picture from their top view. Look at this... :)

He is kissing her and she was shocked! :D

The next day, which was yesterday, I asked the Mac manager whether she still got stocks inside for the other categories of Doraemon(s) or not. Very nice of her, she took out two from the store. Unfortunately one of the kinds already out of stock. :\

Doraemon Pen

Roller Doraemon (He got two kinds of expressions)

Heehee!
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P/S: I elbow my hubby last night when we were sleeping again. :( He pushed my face away from him. Haha! But I too tired to move to the other side. Lolx~!

P/S2: I can feel my tummy is getting heavier now... A little clumsy now. :\

7th Month Pregnancy

2009-09-14T21:47:00.004+08:00

This post is already delayed by 3 days. So right now I am 28 weeks 3 days pregnant liao. Lolx~!

Quickly asked hubby to take a picture of my tummy a day before it marked 7th month coz' he was in afternoon shift in the following two days. When I come back from work he still not yet back till 11pm de.

I was still having rashes that time and caused hubby very hard to take picture as he wanna hide my rashes. But I told him that it doesn't matter anyway. Lolx~!

Saw the rashes below my stomach?

Anyway, the rashes are gone! So again, my tummy is still looking fair and good just like usual but getting rounder day by day. Haha! Still not yet in stretch marks 'zone' and all thanks to the past loosen fats (I was really fat once) that helps me my stomach able to expand to an extend. Kekeke...

Still not enough viewing for tummy? Okay, closer view for you. Beware, Tricia is already 7th months. :)

Gonna update more often when in every two weeks. I still wondering should I take naked top pictures or not...

OF COZ' I WILL COVER TWO PARTS LAH! :p

L.O.V.E to note

2009-09-12T23:51:00.005+08:00

Regardless you are in relationship or marriage life, it is important for you to understand your partner well, know his/her likes and love him/her more than yourself.

It's always a brand new day for both of you...

Trust. It is very important to have trust in between both of you.

What if one of you do not trust each other, this will be very difficult to carry on. But what if you wanna stay on this relationship/marriage, should you not bother or think too much? I don't know how to comment on this. But do sit down and talk to one another. After all, you need to have a clear cut right?

Promises. When you make any promises to him/her, make sure you do it. Like Nike, "Just do it". Don't ever make empty promises. The person who cares for you will listen to what you promised him/her. If the person does not care, why will he/she bother about the promises you made?

Care & Share. He/she wants you to care and share your things to him/her. This makes he/her feel that you do treat he/her as an important person in his/her life. When you feel bothered over something, tell him/her. If this person loves you, he/she will listen to you patiently whenever you wanna speak up.

Understanding. Being an understanding partner. You should know what he/she likings or not. Do not irritate him/her with a small issue. If you can, try not to bother or another bad word to say is, "Heck Care". Sometimes the more you wanna know, the more you do not understand him/her. If you loves him/her, why need to go to this extent.

This is why I always say, "Ignorance is a bliss".

Always there for him/her. As his/her partner, you should know when he/she needs you most. Be always there for him/her. To be frank, he/she always need you to be there. Even when no words from him/her and you just appeared, he/she will be more happy.

But in real life, it is really hard to be always there for someone.

Love. What is love? How to balance it well and won't fall down forever? With these trust, promises made, understanding, care & share and always be there for them, I believe that you won't fall down. :)

It takes two hands to clap? No. In fact it takes two hearts to click.

Just Me & You...

Money Money

2009-09-12T23:25:00.001+08:00

Last Tuesday, one of my nice colleagues gave me muffins. :) Basically all very nice lah. Always stuff me with good foods.

Cheese Muffin

Last Thursday my school suddenly sent out an email about the promotion of mooncake from Goodwood Park Hotel.

They offered 20% for the students! So I quickly ask my colleagues (BI team) who wanna order and ask anyone in school to help me buy first (while stock last!). Luckily Peiqi was in school and she helped me to carry 6 boxes of durian mooncakes! *Really thanks her ALOT!!*

I bought two for my mama and hubby. I knew that hubby loves the durians at goodwood park hotel very much. Thought of asking him to eat with me tonight but ended up he went to cover for his colleague's team as not enough people. Sighz. All my colleagues tried it yesterday and said that it was really delicious. =\

On Friday, I bought cookies for myself and pineapple tarts for hubby. I guess I really spent a lot eversince I start working. -_-''' But I really feel good coz' I can buy anything without worry too much about finance. For example, 2 boxes of durian mooncakes which costed me $82. You know, I can even buy for my mama. :) I just collected my pay yesterday for August. So late right. Lolx~! Pay quite pathetic for a uni grad like me though. Haha!

So tomorrow I gonna give my mama $150 allowance. I left $500 (minus away the spendings on last month and my transport allowances - two months).

Shall try out my new oven tomorrow for baking! :) Of coz' will bake some for my sweet colleagues too! :D

Dim Sum Buffet & KTV Session

2009-09-12T23:03:00.006+08:00

Last Saturday, I met up with my university friends (Mitch, Dave, Agnes, Clar and Xuehui) at Excelsior Hotel for Dim Sum Buffet at River Palace Restaurant. Clar has car that day so he drove Xuehui and me to there. :)

After Dim Sum buffet, Mitch dragged us to KTV session at Peace Centre. Dave and Agnes had something on so they left first. The room is super cheap, $5/hr but the drink also cost us $5. Lolx~!

At around 5pm, Agnes joined us but we need to leave first (except Mitch). So the big big room only left both of them to sing like mad. Lolx!

As usual, it was really a great fun to go out with them. A lot of laughters, gossips and more without any awkwardness at all. :) They always wanna protect me coz' I'm pregnant. Lolx! Too bad June did not join us. I thought that day we all can gather. =\ Nevermind, still got next time! :D

Hate guys who scold their gf in public

2009-09-12T15:01:00.005+08:00

Today I went to Sheng Siong Market with hubby. When we were paying for the stuffs, I was waiting aside for hubby. I saw a ger who stand not so near the staircase who got scolded by her boyfriend.

BF: Can you dun stand there or not? (Fiercely)
GF: I never stand too near what... (Innocent)
BF: Can you JUST dun stand there or not? (still fierce)

She immediately stand e other side which was not so near the staircase but still blur as I think she still wondering what's e matter standing there but not so near staircase. Even when someone pushed her she still can step back a step. Besides, there is handle bar beside her.

Her boyfriend's fierce voice caused some attention from the cashier auntie and some of the people besides her. Damn it. So paiseh for a ger who get scolding from her bf okie!

Seriously, what's the matter with that boyfriend? Do he need to raise out his voice to say his girlfriend? Can't he just ask her girlfriend not to stand too near the staircase instead of raise out his voice? Moreover, SHE DID NOT STAND SO NEAR THE STAIRCASE!!

If the girlfriend wasn't waiting for her boyfriend to settle everything, who the heck to stand there waiting right? I pity the girl. So the moral of the story is, let your boyfriend find you, no need to stand there like an idiot and wait for him .

I just hate the guys raise their voice to their girlfriends in public. If I were the girlfriend, how I wish I can raise my voice back to boyfriend and defend myself. F***. But I am also belongs to the 'timid' person when comes to public as I dun wanna embarass myself.

Spoilt my Saturday today. And, he still haven't delete the pretty stranger in fb. Haiz.

可怜的老公 :(

2009-09-08T22:00:00.002+08:00

Suffer from bad rashes and my hubby's life isn't better at all. There was one night I slept early than him while he was using computer. I suddenly felt so itchy and I asked him to apply cream for me immediately.

At night, I will out of sudden woke up and sayang my tummy coz' of itchiness again. Of coz', a light sleeper like him will awake by me. He then blur blur look at me and sayang my tummy. Lolx~! Having a terrible rashes won't make him feel good at all. I know that he feel so heart pain for me. :\

Eversince I got pregnant, I have two strange signs on me.

Snozing (Due to blocked nose)
Will turn and elbow hubby accidentally (Recently)

These two signs are enough for hubby to wake up a few times and cannot sleep well. :\ Sometimes if I snozing when sleeping near him (when my mouth facing him, haha!), he will pinch my nose de. -_-''' Poor him lor. Heehee!

I remember there was one time I had a dream that I slap him. Ended up I elbow his face hardly when both of us were sleeping. He was shocked and crying sound to me that his face pain. I knew that I hit him so I woke up immediately and sayang him. Lolx~! He's just like a small baby that time.

Okay, I go to sleep liao. Else at night my itchiness out of sudden attack again and caused me not enough sleep again. I dun wanna look like sleepy zombie during at work. Lolx~! Hubby's night shift today. I can occupied the whole bed and elbow whatever (pillow, turtle or blanket) besides me. Haha!

But dunno why, I always cannot sleep easily when he is besides me (or at home). :\

Suffer from rashes :(

2009-09-08T21:19:00.003+08:00

Last Thursday, I went to my mama's house after work and bath at her house as well. While I was using the towel, I saw a few black short fur stick on my body, so I guess it belongs to piyo's. After bath, I can sense that my tummy kinda of itchiness so I just scratch lor. I thought it was due to the expansion of stomach anyway.

The next day (which was Friday), the itchiness did not go away. It's getting from bad to worse. Instead of using my hands to scratch, I use the cloth (my top) to rub against my tummy to resolve the pain. When I reached home, I then realised that it was rashes. :(

So all along I keep applying Baby Johnson lotion and see whether it will recover or not. But it does not work at all. Sat mummy wanna bring me to see doctor but I had an outing with Mitch they all. Sunday the clinic was closed (Or maybe we juz wanna laze around on Sunday).

Monday, which was Hubby's birthday, he brought me to see Dr. Ang. Dr. Ang said that it was due to unhygenic wise or some bacteria caused these rashes. He scanned baby and said that Tricia is healthy. :)

Baby's weight: 1.2kg (She was 700g 2 weeks ago)
Mother's weight: 63.9kg (64.9kg 2 weeks ago)

Weird. I guess that I really need to eat more. I must be standing and walking too much when I'm on my way to work and back to home. :\ But anyway, glad that Tricia is putting on weight. :D

Rashes are really so unbearable. Imagine I have rashes all over my tummy areas and it spreads to my thighs (Near tummy area) le. Small areas do occurred at times around elbow, knee cap and small thighs. :( It is the most unbearable when you scratch it, the MORE you wanna scratch it. Haha... especially at night when I sleeping lor. I must bear with the itchiness and force myself to sleep somemore. :(

Lesson Learnt:
Don't bath at mama's house coz' of Piyo. Lolx~! I guess I have not been bathing at mama's house for super long so my body dun get used to Piyo's fur out of sudden de. I told mama that I have to avoid going her house these few weeks till my rashes recovered. She is okay with it as we still can meet at outside de. :)

I hate rashes. :(

Such a Great Mum

2009-09-04T16:21:00.005+08:00

It is very important to show concern to your pregnant wife coz she tends to be more sensitive and always wanna to be dote during this stage. You can't blame her sensitiveness coz' she can't help it. I can say is, she suffer more than you do. So please do let her know you always there for her.

The following steps to follow. Remember, it just a simple step to do it daily.

Just a little simple sms will brighten up her day.
Hug from her back and let her feel warmth.
Kiss her to make her feel so sweet.
Touch her head to make her know that you care for her.
Talk to her about your work things or other things like news to let her feel that you wanna share things with her.
Hold her hands whenever you are in two, walking together.
Look at her eyes to let her know you still in love with her.
Call her once a while to let her know that you miss her voice.
Buy her small little thing (Foods or toys) once a while to let her know that you think of her wherever you are.
Massage for her to let her know that you know how much pain she suffer.

My papa never did that when my mama was pregnant. I felt so sad for her. No wonder she sometimes cry to herself when talking to people about papa on the phone. That was long ago. Sometimes she get agitated easily as this might cause by the post-natal depression.

But I am glad my papa really treat my mama well now. :)

Just wish every husbands in the world will treat your wife good. Coz'.. pregnant will not make your wife's life better or what.

Imagine now I am already suffering from...

backaches
shoulders super hard
abdomen pain
belly button pain
swollen in everywhere (Not yet though)
cramp legs or butt
baby movement (she moves a lot now and makes me not enough sleep)
body changed a lot
Varicose Veins (I have a lot of them now around my legs)
Itchy skin- rashes (Tummy, hands, legs)
etc.

Who can understand our pain? Only our mum's. Now, I understand how much pain my mama had suffered. :(

"The Men's JUST don't get it"

Baby Socks =)

2009-08-31T22:37:00.003+08:00

Bought these baby socks at Little Feet, located at Raffles Place. :)

I bought two for my little Tricia while one for my sister's baby boy. They are simply so cute and adorable! :D

Tricia Ang

Dun ask me why I wanna buy apples nia. Coz' only apple design nicer than the rest. Hehe!

Caden Kwang

I wanna buy the ballet cute shoes actually. But I scare Tricia very fat and chubby just like her mum. Lolx~! Having a girl will spend more money than boy actually. Coz' the mother always wanna touch up her to the most beautiful princess. :)

Still got ribbons, dresses, handbands, cap, shoes to think of!

Singapore Botanic Garden

2009-08-30T21:22:00.010+08:00

Yesterday, hubby brought me to a 'mystery' place. I kept asking where he wanna bring me to but he juz dun wanna let me noe. So the only thing I could do was, sit back and listen to music lor. Haha!

Showing my fav. toy~

And finally, we reached the place (hubby almost lost his way though). The sun was terribly sunny but at least, it is a 'good' weather to take photo right? =\

Not forgetting to buy water bottle as we left it in our car

I really look like a ball now lor~

We saw a spiderMAN! So scary coz' it seems poison - colorful

Walked past and saw a full of black drawing paper with no one there... =\

A super old tree...

A cute shiny bug~

The flower got a lot of ants... -_-'''

Even a big bug also wanna eat the potent

We caught a squirrel!
(They really run super fast lor)

Wondering why hubby hug me so tight~

I really so... roundie~

Nice wild plant~

We should take our wedding photo at here lor!

OMG! I look so meaty and nerdy here!
(Nvm, I will slim down after deliver!)

:)

So cute~

I think my arms are okie, just that my legs are so freshy.. Haha!

I love this pic! :D

This flower look so... fake! Lolx~

We caught two squirrels fighting over a flower seed and they ran super fast. In the end the loser ran off and the winner continue eating the seed. So hubby walked over to take a shot. :)

Such a close... shot!

Actually they aren't as cute as the cartoon show we watched lor. Their eyes color is red and they have a super sharp teeth. -_-''' Hubby was joking around that what if those squirrels were singing "Chipmunks" song infront of me. Hahaha!

Map - Direction~

We actually wanna go Orchard Roadbut the weather was super hot and it is getting late as I need to attend my friend's birthday at 6.30pm. So we decided to leave. =\

Spotted this big rolling ball..

Singapore Orchid Flower~

:)

Asked Fionna to help me to buy hubby's present and got it from her yesterday during KaiLin's birthday. I was quite bored and luckily got Jacob's mum to chat with me. :)

Gave hubby the gift first because he already knew what I'm gonna to give him. -_-''' Anyway, I'm glad that hubby likes the gift coz' finally "全家福" le. :D I will post up the pictures soon. (^_^)v

Computer Computer =(

2009-08-26T11:16:00.004+08:00

Yesterday I saw him on his laptop when he reached home so I keep telling him not to surf net for too long. Coz' I just wish to get to see him on the bed, sleeping besides me when I wake up for toilet.

Nevertheless, when I woke up for urine at about 3am, I did not see him sleeping besides me. I went to check out and in the end he still surfing net or playing games. :( Sighz.

So I intend to not to sms him today. Coz' I'm angry over what he had promised me but never do it. I shall sleep early tonight and will not wait for him to come back after his work. =(

Very angry. But in the end I still got kissed him a lot of times before I go to work while he is still sleeping soundly. =\ Haiz.

P/S: The plan is half way through now. Glad that Fionna is helping me out. :)

2 More Weeks...

2009-08-24T14:19:00.011+08:00

This morning I took MRT to work. I was not able to find seat at all. Coz' I'm wearing a top where you can't see that I am pregnant. Throughout the journey till Novena MRT, I felt so terrible and very giddy. But I bear with it as I do not wish to ask people to let me sit when I dun look like pregnant at all.

I dun blame anyone actually. Just blame myself for standing in the middle of the MRT, that metal platform which making you "shake" here and there. I promise, I dun wanna stand there anymore. Haha!

Oh yes, two more weeks, it's mark...

My hubby's birthday

as well as...

Our first year wedding anniversary

And two days later, it is the day of our...

5th year of "being together" anniversity.

I have planned the event on his birthday already. :) How I wish I can blind-folded him and I do the driving. But sadly, I dun have driving license. But it's okie, I still can blind-fold him when we reach the destination. His responsibility is to bring camera and drive me to there. Heehee~!

As for his bdae gift, I know what to buy already but havent yet go that place to buy it lor. Hmmm, I am wondering what he will prepare for me lor. But as usual lah, I always the one who is romantic while he is not. Haha!

I miss hugging him le... :( His night shift always make me miss him even more. But he always say he dun miss me lor. *sob sob*

Pri Sch - Crystal Jade Steamboat

2009-08-23T09:49:00.006+08:00

On 4th of August, a nice organizer - Kah Ying helped to organize an Anticipating outing through facebook. Haha! This outing is specially for a VIP but in the end she did not come. Our SIA girl also never come as she need to fly to Denmark at the very last minute for work. =\

I suggested to eat steamboat at Crystal Jade coz' nevery try before also. In the end everyone also very okie with this idea. *Hengz arh* We have two new guests today, Zhilu and Eileen. :)

Busy ordering...

We ordered the “乌梅” drinks but it tastes like BBQ sauce added to the Plum drink. =_=''' So in the end we decided to change the drinks. Keke!

Start cooking...

All busy eating...

Really very busy eating...

Yummy~!

They wanna bully me - as in arguing, but in the end they stopped it coz' 就是为了不要动胎气. -_-''' Lolx~!

The prawns are moving! :(
(That is why I dun dare to look at them too long)

Such a nice Mingrui, he plucked the prawns for us and let us take. I dun wanna eat the prawns coz' no one pluck for me like my sweet hubby. But since Mingrui already plucked the prawn, such a thick face like me sure took one. Heehee!

Photo time!

The ones who dun eat lamb or beef... (Except xiuxiu)

The guys~

Jiayan keep calling me Mummy~
Then I answered: "乖女儿。。。"

Ai hui & Xiu xiu

Eden, Eileen & Shu Juan

Group Photo Time!

*Formal*

*Semi-formal*

*Informal*

Haha, the camera waiter really being very patience to us. Lolx~!

Overall I only think their dumplings nice nia. Pig intestine very hard to chew. :\ They have luncheon meat too! quite nice. :) I really love the outing this time. Perhaps got Zhilu, the professional salesman plus everyone won't really feel awkward anymore like last time. :) Hopefully the VIP will come next time. Wondering she is still the same or... Lolx!

Hubby alone at home dabao'ing KFC. I felt so bad that time lor. :( He was so sweet that he came to fetch me after my steamboat. *Guilty* The rest of the guys went to Mac Cafe have a drinks. I did not join coz' I wanna bath early aka acc LaOgOnG. :D Eh... baby miss papa also de mah. =x

Pregnant Lady. So?

2009-08-19T10:10:00.002+08:00

Read MyPaper today and show one post on "Pregnant? Don't expect people to give you their seats". It was about an old lady who is 70s but look younger was asked to give up her seat by a woman to a young pregnant commuter. This lady here was very angry as she is a friend of that old lady. So she wrote a post to 'shoot' back.

I was wondering, if she was not happy on that day that her old friend need to give up seat to a pregnant lady, then why not she voiced out or rather ask the person besides to give up seat? Come on lah, dun only know how to complain nia, action leh! Hate those people who know how to talk but no action at all.

Yesterday, I was standing all the way from Raffles MRT to Admir MRT. It's not that I dun wanna find seat, I just dun like to go inside purposely to let people notice that I am pregnant. So I just stood near the gate lor. But when I got down, I walk in a moderate speed to home, but a sudden pain around my abdomen area. So I decided to walk super slow.

Went home to search for more information to answer this after my dinner and bath. It is called Round Ligament. This is due to long hour of standing or overstretch as our tummy is growing rapidly and heavier which causes more pressure on it.

When hubby was back from work, he helped me to massage my tummy. :) At later hour, my belly button was pain again. The pain still continues even when I woke up in the middle of the night to urine. I guess baby is growing bigger and fatter now. Haha! As long as she is healthy, I think this pain is all worthwhile de. (^_^)v

This morning, the train wasn't really packed as I can still able to walk inside and stand. I don't really expect people to give up their seats for me coz either they are sleeping, reading newspapers or playing games. Perhaps they are pretending or never see my big tummy. Haha! From Admir mrt till Bishan, finally got people get down. But I didn't really wanna snatch with people who standing infront of me.

However, a kind uncle who standing infront of me asked me to sit down even though throughout the journey he was reading his newspaper. I was quite surprised that he noticed that I am pregnant. Because there were two seats, I purposely push my butt to another side and let him sit the available seat infront of him. But instead of sit immediately, he looked around to see anyone wanna sit or needy people first. So no one? He decided to sit down.

I was quite impressed by his little action. :) But I more impressed by the Taiwan MRT. Those youngsters or middle-age people will not sit on the "Priority Seat"s at all. Unlike Singapore. So what for asking Gummit Singh to advertise and say the rap on giving seats for needy person?

Anyway, I thought I still can tahan of standing throughout the journey till 8th month. But I realised that my tummy do not behaving well. :( Perhaps I should really start walking super slow if I standing throughout the journey bah.

New Ez-Link Student Card

2009-08-18T10:22:00.002+08:00

I was so happy that I got to see my name in the notice board yesterday to collect one-to-one exchange Ez-link student card. This means, I still can enjoy the student concession for few more months. If I did not manage to get the student card, I only able to enjoy the privilege till end of September only coz' the old card valid till october only.

I am so glad that I still can take the student card. This means...

Travel from Admir to Raffles MRT: $1.62
Total (2 times): $3.24

1 month 20 working days: $64.80

But using MRT concession is $45. So I have saved almost $20. If I meeting my friends after work or what, I also can use mrt concession. Today, I got down at City Hall MRT to buy some breads from breadtalk. Then travel to Raffles Place MRT. Haha, without spending any extra travel cost leh. :x

But I will use till end of November also lah. Coz I will quit my job at around mid of November. I need to rest and shop and eat good foods for the last 2 weeks before I give birth. Well, my hubby's side confinement require 4 months. -_-''' This is the first time I heard this. Luckily cannot bath for one month, not 4 months. *Sweat*

Well, I dun care also lah. After rest and taking care baby for about 1.5 months, I will start looking for jobs no matter what liao. I hate owing money from Government lah - CPF. =x Lolx~! Heard that CPF interest will be increase soon, current interest is 2.5%. :(

Six Months Pregnancy

2009-08-15T22:55:00.005+08:00

Last Thursday, it marked 6 months of my pregnancy. :) So I asked hubby to take a picture of my tummy without my breasts showing. He thought I wanna take in naked body in the first place so' he keep rejecting me. -_-''' Aiyo.. he want I also dun dare lor.

And finally, Hubby took out his cam but he took about 10 sec to zoom in and out to position well.... -_-'''

If you belongs to the kind of got "breastie" person, your neh neh sure boom up to one more cup or two when your pregnant de. I'm one of the unlucky one. :( Hate those tiko-pek looking at my assets instead of my looks. :( :( :(

Not happy with the picture, I asked hubby to take one more today. This time, I wore a tight fitting white top for clearer picture. Heehee!

Better view? :D But opoos, my tummy is showing! Keke!

Went to watch movie, "UP" with hubby at Causeway Point this afternoon. It was indeed a great show that shouldn't miss it. But starting abit moody lor, coz' hubby make me angry. In the middle of the show I still have to go and take his hand he then hold my hand. -_-''' He always like that de lah, wait for me to cool down nia.

Baby seems know that I was angry. Whenever I am angry, she's start kicking me. So I asked hubby not to bully me coz' baby knows it! Hehehe~

Butterfly or Moth?

2009-08-09T21:38:00.005+08:00

Went to Sembawang Plaza to settle some stuffs. Ate my super late lunch there with hubby at foodcourt. After that while waiting for mummy, we went to library borrow some books. As usual, I will borrow pregnancy books. Heehee~!

Hubby borrowed a book to teach him how to learn Japanese. I feel irritated coz' he gonna use this knowledge to talk to those japanese passengers. Think also angry. :(

Elder sister said that my hands not really very big but my whole body is keep getting rounder and rounder. Wahaha! During the first four months, I was quite angry and sad over my body and weight. But eversince I sense baby's kicking, I feel a little more attractive le. Especially hubby always kiss my tummy and listen to baby's heartbeat, the feeling can't just describe lah! *Blissful*

Spotted a white butterfly/moth by hubby after he went to toilet. "It" simply just wanna stick to hubby and dun wanna fly away regardless how many times hubby swang his short or I brought my hp camera near to it.

I believed that "it" is a female. Even butterfly/moth also kana attracted by him. 看了就讨厌！:(

See, he smiled so happily... -_-'''

I used a small piece of newspaper to bring it away from hubby's short and placed it on the balcony. I believed this butterfly/moth is very proud of its beautiful body. Coz' no matter how many times we shoot it, it still stay there without escaping.

Isn't it beautiful? :)

It was looking at me somemore when I took a shot of it. -_-''' You say, "it" very hao lian (proud) right?

OSIM uPapa

2009-08-09T21:07:00.005+08:00

Father-in-law bought this back massager, Upapa for mother-in-law last week. I asked hubby to try first and see how it works. While trying Upapa, he was eating snacks sommore. -_-'''

Of course, he was reprimanded by me coz' it was already 10pm plus le lor. Keep nagging him and he finally stop eating and close the lid. Good boy. Heehee~!

How he react during the massaging process...

I went to try my back calf but I dun feel any effective leh. Tried on my foot also, I think it's nothing too. =x If you guys gonna buy a massager or what, better buy a massage chair. I know it expensive, but heard that dunno what brand can pay by installment for 24 months. But I noe it's not OSIM. =\

Don Pie Cheesecake

2009-08-09T20:29:00.003+08:00

Last Friday, my colleagues brought me to Hong Lim Complex for lunch. Although quite far from our office, I am fine since I dun really walk so slow right now yet. :) This is why Shuting reprimand me at times and say I dun look like pregnant woman now. I told her when I become 8 months then she gonna wait for me liao. Haha~!

After lunch, two of my nice colleagues, Angela and Tina accompanied to Don Pie to buy my favorite cheesecake and hubby's favorite kueh lapis. Shuting and Meiyan went to buy ice teh tarik and helped me to buy Milo dinosaur as well. :)

Superb!

Abit dry lor... =\

Cheesecake: $26 for 10pcs ($3/pc)
Kueh Lapis: $13 (I rather you go buy Bengawan Solo de lah)

This week I really spend quite a lot. =\ It was my first working week somemore leh! -_-''' Nvm, I will wait for hubby's pay to come and to offset what I have spent. =x Wahahhaa~!

Albert's Wedding

2009-08-09T12:26:00.005+08:00

Last Sunday, hubby and I went to attend his secondary school friend's, Albert's wedding. It was holding at Sentosa Rasa Hotel. :) It was told in the invitation card that we should park our car at beach carpark and there will be a shuttle bus to rasa hotel. Being a kuku in Sentosa area, we did so.

Later on we took the shuttle bus to the hotel after we have parked our car at beach carpark. Once reached, I told the 'receptionists' that we have arrived while hubby wrote wishes for them on the big card. We were given one card which have their wedding photo inside.

Heard that they specially went to korea for their photoshoot

Feeling hot at outside, hubby and I decided to walk in and have a rest.

We were the first person to sit inside. Haha~!

Welcome gift - chocolates

Such a nice scenery...

Menu of the day

Me & Hubby

After dinner, Chin Guan (hubby's secondary friend too) sent us back to Beach Carpark. Luckily got him. Haha~! On the very next day was my first day at work somemore. =\

On Tuesday morning before I went to work, I saw this big moth spotted by hubby in brother's room. I wonder what if he was at home... I'm pretty sure he gonna freak out by this moth. Wahaha~!

Ba-Ku-Teh @ Clarke Central Opp

2009-08-07T23:24:00.004+08:00

Last Wednesday, I went dinner with University friends at Clarke Quay. While on the train from dhobby ghaut, a boy who is a student wanna give up his seat to me even though I was standing 8 feets away from him. But I told him that I gonna get down in next stop. He then go back to his seat. :)

Clarence and I meet up first, followed by June, Dave and Xuehui. Agnes could not make it coz she went for her friend's bbq already. Mitch, she said that she will be very late.. so we start first without her.

Toking to Mitch

While browsing through what we wanna order, I argued with June.

Me: 小介兰好吃。。
June: 不是。。小白菜比较好吃。。。
Me：没有。。小介兰比较好吃。。。
Dave: 让她吃，让她吃小介兰。。。(Coz' I preggy)
Me: -_-'''

Later on...
Me：卤大肠好吃。。。
Dave & June: Ok ok, 叫卤大肠。。。
Me: -_-'''

Wow lau eh, you see, being preggy got such a privilege sia! Lolx~!

Aussie & Jappie
(Dave & Xuehui)

Preggy & Uncle
(Me & Clar)

Busy Model & Preggy

(June & Me)

She sayang'ng my baby~

I think I really look kinda of sleepy that time. Why my eyes so small de? Haha!

The foods we ordered arrive very fast.

Mitch gonna be very late as she do auditing in a company which located at tuas. After that she took taxi straight to meet us. However, the taxi driver super slow. How she wish to ask the driver to get down and she drive. Haha~!

We went to Coffee Club to wait for her after our dinner at Ba-Ku-Teh.

I ordered Strawberry milkshake~

June, Dave & Xuehui ordered Mud Pie~

Clar dunno order what coffee. I think it was ice latte. After that Mitch came at the right time when waiter was asking us any last order. Haha. Mitch ordered a cheese baked pasta and a rambutan freeze.

I wonder why it is in pink color

We had a great chat and laughed a lot hearing each other experiences in overseas. Dave shot a Pregnant Kangaroo. :( Oh no, it was his friend who did it and went to a naked beach. Xuehui cannot tahan the high school japan girls who hoo-hoo... crazy over ang moh people in their school. Mitch cannot tahan the china people in her hostel who talk about chinese poems and likes to boast around about themselves.

So funny but the night ended so quickly. We have to leave early as some of us got to work on the next day while others got morning flight too. I took taxi with Xuehui and Clar after that. Clar said when my stomach bigger, they must walk me to door liao. -_-''' No need lah, I so round liao, people won't take a fancy on me le. Haha!

June gave me two orange masks and one eye mask. Xuehui gave me one tissue holder and coinpurse. Took some japanese tibits from her too. Mitch gave me thai spicy noodle from Thailand which Dave helped her to buy it. I got so much 收获 in just one night. Lolx~! Thanks guys! :)

Baby kick Papa

2009-08-07T11:53:00.002+08:00

Yesterday, I went off immediately once the clock strikes to 6pm sharp. Hubby's night shift so I wanna reach home early so as to spend a little more time with him and just in case he hungry and he eat dinner first without me lor.

I managed to reach home early, 7pm sharp. Hubby and I ate dinner together. After dinner I went to bath straight as I want to be xiang xiang to let him sniff me. Heehee~! I asked him to apply lotion around my stomach before he go to work.

Before he apply, I asked him to listen to baby. Then I asked baby to kick him. In the end she really kick on the area where hubby was listening. Wahaha~! But weird thing is, what hubby heard was not a kick sound, it was a gu-lu gu-lu sound. Hmmm, just like drinking water sound?

How I wish hubby is pregnant so I can hear the sound and he can feel baby's kicks. Wahaha~!

Will update a lot of posts by tonight. :)

Massage Equipment - Upapa
Hubby's secondary friend's wedding @ Sentosa
Ba-ku-teh with a batch of cute friends (there's one from aus.. one from jap.. one from swiss and super dislike china.. one super busy model.. one chubby uncle.. and pregnant woman too!)
Buffet @ Crown Prince Plaza (Treat by Alex) - It's really a hardly treat from him. =x
Working life

Kinda of wish to go a short trip like Star Cruise with hubby. But hubby always wanna ask his parents along. I dun mind lah, but can 2 persons per room? I just wanna enjoy and feel the world of two of us first before baby comes out lah...

:(

First Day @ Work

2009-08-03T20:40:00.003+08:00

Today is the first day I start working. Although kinda of tired by waking up so early and work such a long hours (9hrs including 1hr lunch), I must endure for the sake of money to pay my school loan, give my mama money and baby extra funds. Haha~!

MRT is really damn crowded during peak hours. In raffles place, WORSE. All the working people seems so ka chiong and walk very fast. So you can see the mrt and building voids are crowded with people walking to work. I wish I can walk slowly but dunno why I also walk very fast like them. Haha!

As for my job scope now, I am not as busy as ShuTing yet. I was told to explore Microstrategy and how it extract data and generate reports. So out of these eight hours, I been searching for some information about this software and read up the guidebook on how to create report and so on. Of course, not forgetting to check my emails plus msn friends while the report is processing.

All of my colleagues are really kind and friendly. Especially Tina and Angela. Angela is a very sweet lady who have a really attractive smile and motherly feeling. It is not that I treat her as my mother. Just that, she gives me the warmth and secure feeling.

Tina, the lady who will be coaching and guiding me throughout the way, is a very friendly person and can talk to you almost everything under the sun. The common thing about us is, we both like macademia nuts very much. She did offer me her tibit but I was too full that time so I did not try it. Shall buy one pack tomorrow if we passby there. :D

More or less my knowledge on this software roughly about 50% already. This is quite similar to Crystal Reports but somehow more challenging lor. So I got to put in more efforts to do more examples on the guidebook in order to let myself more familar with this software.

Next week onwards I believe I will have more things to do as I am going to help out another colleague, Gary, to do his stuffs. One thing I hate about temp staff is, they dun have the fix job. All they need to do is sit and wait for order to help their colleagues or supervisor. :\

What to do? I am just a preggy woman and really glad that a company would actually want to employ me!

Baby is naughty today. She kicked me a lot of times today. But there was two hard kicks which kinda of hurt me. Sitting in the MRT is really make my butt pain coz' of long duration of traveling (Woodlands from/to Raffles) and the seat is really hard. :(

How I wish I can have a massage from hubby but we just argue over small thing. Haha! Working is really a tiring task. Really miss my bed a lot. I guess I really slack too much eversince I graduate (June to Aug) and slack for almost 2 months. =\

Look at the sky and trying to find stars can help to relieve a little stress. Do try it! I am doing it now. :)

Childhood --> Teenager --> Lady

2009-08-01T22:44:00.012+08:00

It's time for me to post my photos from childhood to the time before I pregnant le right? Haha~! It will be a "PG" rated coz' I dun take much pictures when I was on diet and therefore it might scare you guys! :) So ready?

Ah Ma & myself
(1 year old)

My second sister, me & my cousin
(3 years old)

(4 years old)

My first dog
(5 years old)

I graduated from Kindergarten!

Spot me?
(Can't really remember how old was I)

My 7 years old birthday

My parents & little cousin
(8 years old)

Haw Pa Villa
(9 years old)

My cutie cousin
(13 years old)

(14 years old)

Primary School Gathering
(14 years old)

Oh my god!
(15 years old)

Teachers' Day Celebration
(16 years old)

Racial Harmony
(17 years old)

School Prom Nite 2001
(17 years old)

Genting Trip with family + relatives
(17 years old)

From this moment onwards, I decided to go diet coz' I felt that my body fats were tangling ALL over my body. In the next FEW (Coz' I lost my laptop so all pictures were gone) pictures, you can see my body was getting a little slimmer...

Pasir Ris Chalet
(17++ years old)
*68kg*

Poly Friends' BBQ
(18 years old)
*63kg*

After 2 years of my determination (at first unhealthy, after that vigorious exercise and control my diet), finally my effort paid off!

My second sister's wedding
(19 years old)
*46kg*

Ngee Ann Polytechnic Graduation Ceremony
(20 years old)

Went to University after 1 year working experience and figure somehow gained to 48kg - 49kg range.

My first time school camp
Metaphornosis SIS Camp 2006

Convocation
(ELW Group)

IS Module
(22 years old, Year 1)

My Birthday Celebration 2007
(22 years old)
*First time cut hair till so short*

Finally last year of my SMU, I decided to challenge myself in taking album in school, public. -_-''' That time I was married already and weighted 51 kg. Lolx~!

I didn't realise that our "Sitting Arrangement" was CORRECT!
(^_^)v

Very fast, very soon, I got pregnant in this year March. Of course, weight start to gain from 3rd month onwards. From 4th month onwards, my "attractive" figure is more obvious. Lolx~!

Hopefully I still got the previous kind of determination to slim down again. But somehow, do I really have the time to go exercise while my baby at home? Sighz. Perhaps when I start working, I will begin my first method - climb the staircase 2 times daily. :\

Hopefully my metabolism still as active as usual (when I was 17 years old bah). Haha!

Look like my second sister

2009-07-30T23:18:00.003+08:00

Because I am growing fatter, a lot of people around me said that I look like my second sister liao. -_-'''

Sianz lah. I hate being getting fatter. :(

I am craving for Mac'donald hotcakes now. :( By the way, I am going to start work on next Monday and my boss wanna me start earlier. Hurray! I can finally get to move about rather than slack at home doing nothing or try to bother and stop hubby from playing his new game.

At least I dun have to help mother-in-law to look after (spy) of the new maid while she can enjoy going out with her friends next time. I also got income that is more than 1k leh! I can shop with my colleagues or SMU friends after my work too!

But one thing is not good. I cannot have my afternoon nap liao. :(

Time to go to sleep le. Gonna read fairy tales for Tricia and then ended with a song which sang by his father (recorded in my hp).

Lovely Varick

2009-07-29T20:40:00.009+08:00

Went to Valerie's house last week and her brother, Varick really hyper and super cute lor. His actions made us laugh a lot. :) He likes hubby the most and always want hubby to tell him stories and play with him. Keke~!

Varick is very concentrate of what hubby reading...

Isn't he's cute?

Two cuties~

Hubby likes to bully him when he is watching TV - High School Musical. He was like so focusing when watching the show. Haha!

Today we went to visit them again. Varick was sleeping but hubby and I decided to disturb him and wake him up. He heard that I said "Uncle will read story book for you, quick quick wake up" and hubby said "Carry?", he woke up le. Keke~! So hyper active right? :)

Took a video of him again but forgot that video must take in horizontal way. Lolx~!

He sooooooooooooo CUTE lah!

P/S: Hubby can feel baby is moving around my stomach too! :D I think baby is saying hello to him by kot kot bah. when my mummy trying to feel it through my stomach, she dun wanna say hello liao. Haha~

Big Fire @ Yew Tee

2009-07-29T20:14:00.001+08:00

Out of our curiousity - KPO'ness since we are just nearby only, we decided to drop by to see which area was on fire. Note, location is at Yew Tee Shopping Centre.

Even students also kpo'ing like us~

My MIL also kpo'ing. :x

Total got three fire rescue cars. So you can imagine how big was the fire! Two in front, the other one was at the back of the building.

Scary horrible smoke

We did not stay there for too long. Coz' inhale too much smoke is not good for baby also. So after taking some pictures and kpo'ing finish, we went to Valerie and Varick's house le. :)

Stupid Me lah

2009-07-24T14:10:00.001+08:00

Dunno why.. I still wanna wait for someone till 2pm.

Wait and wait...

Suan le.. Decided to cook maggie mee, my favorite korean one in e end when clock strike to 2.10pm. Now I understand what is the meaning of "不吃软也不吃硬" - pointless.

I will go cut hair later. Whenever I feel like cutting my hair, is the moment I feel depress. Phew~! I wish to cut it as short as possible but not now. I will leave it before Tricia wanna see the world.

What's wrong with me? Or this is just a human instinct? I begin to hate myself.

Weirdo. Argh~!

H1N1 Risks

2009-07-22T23:02:00.004+08:00

Just received mail from boss and she wanna me start work on 3rd of August instead of 17th. Great for me to start work early too rather than slacking at home coz' beside cooking and some house chores, I will only know napping during noon time lor.

Saw the news announced that another H1N1 death. And this time is a 13 years old kid, with epilepsy and heart attack. The word "Epilepsy" sound sensitive to me. :( I guess Singapore sooner or later gonna be a red zone. Haiz.

I will be working in Raffles Place. During peak hour, MRT confirm very crowded one. I am wondering whether should I buy a box of masks to protect myself and baby or not when taking the crowded MRT to work and back home? :\

Gonna buy two pants (black and white) for work purposes liao. Else I got no formal wear to work also. :\ Although hubby never keep saying about my figure, I already feel sick when I see my legs and arms are getting fatter. :( I must really have the BIG determination to slim down after I delivered!

People will nag me that I am pregnant so it's okie de. But it really hard for me to slim down and yet I have to grow back those weight again. Normal weight gain for an acceptable weight should be 15kgs. But I gained 10kgs within 5 months. Phew~!

I just dun wanna make those sweet and nice dresses get wasted lah. Those are my favorite dresses okie! :(

P/S: Just hear me whin will do. I juz being a nagging woman lah! :D

Ten Kilograms

2009-07-22T10:54:00.002+08:00

Forgot to mention, my gynae's assistant helped me to record my weight. It showed 60.2kg. I was like, wow lau eh, so far strike to "6" digit infront ah... Hubby laughed at me. -_-''' Compared to the past before I was pregnant, I think I have already gained about 10 kgs. Phew~!

Yesterday I went to mama's house as stated in previous post, my elder sister said I have grow a lot of fats around my legs and arms liao. :/ She asked me to come home often so as not to make her feel I grow fat so much. Haha!

In the past I dun usually eat a lot, such as less than half a bowl of rice or take kuey tiao instead of rice. But now, I must eat more than half a bowl of rice and sometimes hubby dun wanna me to eat kuey tiao for dinner. Just like yesterday lunch, I ordered wanton kuey tiao. Hubby finished Kuey Chap already and he went to order duck rice. Usually he is able to finish all, but he gave me two large spoonful of rice and duck meats to eat. I told him that I already full but he still wanna me to eat more. -_-''' Now I know where did my weight gained from le...

My elder sister very scare to get pregnant. Coz she eat quite less for her meals too. So if she pregnant... Wahaha~! My second sister has gained 7 kgs. She dun usually limit her eating habits, so no problem for her even when she is pregnant now lor. Eat as per normal. Her's is a baby boy. :) I asked her husband has named his son already or not...

姐夫。。。我的女儿叫做红（洪）苹果 - Red Apple, 你的叫做矿(筐)潜水 - Mineral Water 好不好?

Everyone laughed. Keke~! Mama also made fun of him, "Why not call, Kwang Simi (Look what)?" Wahaha~!

Hmmm... why I gained so much weight arh... Must be durians' fault also. I shall restrain myself from durians today onwards. :\ Glad that I can process everyday, else I might become more heavier lor. Keke~!

1 kg... 2 kgs... 3 kgs... 10kgs!!! I cant believe merely 5 months plus - 21 weeks I have gained so much kgs lah... Hope hubby likes to hug me more. Haha~!

It's a baby Girl. =)

2009-07-21T22:20:00.002+08:00

Went for baby's 3D scan yesterday at TMC. How I wish I can meet Alvy there too to see her big stomach but her appointment was in the early morning. =\ And the lady said my baby is considering as 100% girl now - coz' of the white line inside the V-area. Lolx~!

Before the scan, hubby insisted me to sms him about our baby's gender coz' he was not with me due to his work training. At first I dun wanna sms him coz' I wanna make him feel excited. Hehe. But in the end I still sms him. Instead of telling him our baby's gender, I sms him our baby's name, Tricia Ang. :D

After that papa and mama drove me to Sun Plaza to let my gynae see the result. Basically what he said, I also know based on the result lah. Lolx~! Baby is well formed and everything is normal. :) And baby's weight now is 370g!

Wrapped up some dishes for dinner today. I always wanted to cook these dishes (With asterisk) for hubby.

*Fried mashed potato + diced prawns (added some butter to taste better)
*Fried mashed potato + diced prawns + diced mango
Cauliflowers + Flat beans + mushrooms + carrot + baby corn
*Sweet & Sour Fish + Onion + Green Capsium
Sliced Ginger + Pork + Sesame oil

During the process of frying, my baby kicked me a few times. I think she feel hot bah - the stove heat is near my stomach. I tried to stand further so as to make her feel comfortable. I feel happy as I finally sense her kicking. She usually very guai actually. Keke~!

Preparing the mashed potato is really a tedious process. I have to mash the potato, cut the prawn and mix them together. Add some butter and pepper for better taste. Later on apply with corn flour, then apply with the beaten egg, and lastly mix with breadcrumbs. Shape it out to long rectangular for original one while round one is mango flavour de.

Fry this and that and caused the kitchen became very oily. Glad hubby and mummy helped to clean up. Heehee!

Hubby left home early to attend his colleague's father funeral. Later on he got night shift duty also. :( I miss him a lot... Went to mama's house to take the leaves for hubby to wash his face and arms tomorrow when he reached home.

I miss him applying lotion on my stomach and hug me during sleeping... :( Past two days he never apply for me coz he dozed off first before I sleep.

P/S: Hubby heard our baby's heartbeat for the first time from my stomach! :D

My figure (O_o)'''

2009-07-18T23:00:00.008+08:00

I am going to be 21 weeks in next week time. So excited as this coming Monday I gonna go for a detailed 3D scan to see my baby. :) Too bad hubby got meeting so I can only meet him after that lor. :\ But anyway, he will get to see the scan pictures also lah. Heehee!

When my stomach is growing bigger, I can feel bloated easily after my meal or snack. This is because the fetus is growing in size very rapidly during the second trimester.

But I am glad that I did not suffer from constipation. Else I will feel even more bloated.

You may experience heartburn as the growth of the fetus presses up against your organs. During this time, you might also experience constipation. In most cases, eating a healthy diet with plenty of fiber will help with both of these symptoms.

And now I can't even cross my legs after meal. Else I will feel very hard to breath. So the moral of the story is, open legs big big after meal. (Dun think dirty) Lolx~! So I can rest my stomach in a larger surrounding.

In the past, I can feel the fats in between my thighs when I walked and caused my short one up one down in the end. But ever since I managed to slim down in year 2003, this kind of feeling and "incident" were no longer there.

However, TODAY, I can feel the fats again. Faint. But luckily I did not buy any shorts which meant for pregnant women. Phew~!

I went to measure my vital stats, bust - waist - hip.

So what figure you will think I am now?

All wrong. In fact, I didn't realize that the measurement was so amazing...

Yeah, basically my measurement now is just like this cylinder. Faint. I just wish my stomach will grow bigger so that the measurement will be better for a pregnant woman like me. Haha!

P/S: My dad saw me yesterday and told me that he finally able to see my big stomach. Lolx~!

Feel happy today. Especially when we passed by the humps. Why? Coz' I like the way hubby look at me and my body. Haha! I can feel myself a pretty woman which capture his attention lor! :D